How to deal with bluepillers shaming me for not conforming

gxm492lor · 2021-05-08T19:42:26+00:00

They shouldn't know about your redpill beliefs. The religion of our civilization is feminism and the worship of women is demanded from everyone. You're a blasphemer, a heretic in their eyes. If you dont want to live like a heretic don't be too open about your true beliefs.

Total_Coconut_8900 · 2021-05-08T19:38:26+00:00

Blend in till you no longer have to.

sqiop · 2021-05-08T19:39:14+00:00

I will not going to get depressed from blue pilled and effeminate man to tell me how to live my life.

I am sure that ,in no way possible, even if i have only 2 brain cells, i will not change myself for what woman want and what they like.

You have 1 Month to finish high school? Good, then i will be creative and prepare some very good talk to say to that feminine dean of yours, like a goodbye or something. Or send him a email, Maybe hand written.

For that bluepillers idiots, waste of time, dont even try to talk with them. In the end they will pay child support and alimony and be depressed, You on the other kind, live your life and become wealthy. Living your life on your terms, become wealthy and enjoying is the best revenge ,people are so envy on those people who live their life.

dadudenines · 2021-05-08T19:53:17+00:00

Don't talk about fight club... It will be like all the projections in "Inception" coming after you, they don't want their reality disturbed and will defend their own self-destruction. Just go Grey Man, Ice Guy, etc.

At best you can be Socratic and allow them to explain themselves and let them trip over their inconsistencies without getting into your beliefs.

ncarolina66 · 2021-05-08T19:48:20+00:00

I know it's hard for someone so young but the way to deal with this is to not tell people you are MGTOW and just do your own thing.

Maybe just say you are waiting for the right girl to come along (to keep people from shaming you into a girlfriend or asking if you are gay, etc.).

Just do your own thing, get hobbies, learn marketable skills, make money, invest, travel to experience different cultures, read, expand your horizons, and have fun living life on your terms.

Good luck and remember MGTOW for LIFE!

brianmcg321 · 2021-05-09T12:57:02+00:00

Don’t talk about it. Easy.

Captain_REEcard · 2021-05-08T19:44:35+00:00

The best way to deal with it is just not to talk to people that you know won't accept your ideology. Keep it to yourself, hide in plain sight, and only talk with people who you know are receptive to your beliefs, or better, already have some of the same beliefs.

To paraphrase the movie The Matrix, you have to understand that most people do not want to be woken up.

Itisoutthere · 2021-05-09T11:07:53+00:00

Maybe you could / should read the "concept of the grey man" .

You can`t discuss with all of these new and modern people which try to make everything right for everybody..

They have their agenda .

I keep it like the penguins from madagaskar.. Wave and smile... And do your thing.

The only real validation you need and get is your own!!!

GoodFaithSockPuppet · 2021-05-09T14:05:55+00:00

You learned your lesson about other men. Until you know you can trust them? You cannot.
For the Academic Notions behind his behavior?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_Kohlberg's_stages_of_moral_development

Stage 3. He's Stage 3.
MGTOW demands Stage 4 from men. As you can't go MGTOW without leaving Stage 3 behind. Otherwise you live in a Moral Exile and will go insane.
When men are raised without Masculinity they have a terrible time reaching Stage 4 much less Stage 5
You are being asked to shoulder the natural state that men are meant to achieve.
He gave up on it long ago.

Good luck and Good footing on the Path!

figwhistler · 2021-05-09T08:53:53+00:00

Just smile, nod and agree with them if you have to speak to them... "I guess you're right..."... Something along those lines. And then just keep those ideas internally. If you need to vent, you have this sub

Otherwise ignore

FanofLemmy · 2021-05-09T15:03:57+00:00

Realize that your life is yours to live, no one else.

Do you think you are missing out by being "red pilled"?

Changing yourself is not the way to a woman's heart, btw. It's how women settle for you. Stick to your guns always.

Don't let people shame you. Most people will always shame you because they want you to suffer just like they have. Misery loves company, as they say.

Best way to win is grey man theory. Live how you want, but present yourself as everyone else. Hide in plain sight. It will benefit you throughout life immensely.

I'd also never talk about red pill to most people.

Want to win in life? Make bank, invest, retire early, have lots of toys and hobbies. For me, its fast cars and motorcycles.

Fuck everyone else. People are quick to tell you how to live but hate being told what to do.

Galts_Ghost · 2021-05-09T16:05:58+00:00

Tell them it's none of their business how you live your life if you haven't harmed anyone or broken the law. But seriously you shouldn't be talking about MGTOW or the red pill or any of that shit around blue pilled simps that worship pussy.

Kini42 · 2021-05-09T16:35:12+00:00

Stay strong, play their game but don’t consent, beat them with their own weapons!

HoneyAndThunder · 2021-05-09T09:18:35+00:00

Don't talk about the RP. Just look the part and hide in plain sight. Nod, agree and do whatever the fuck you were going to do anyway.

ActOutside4853 · 2021-05-09T15:01:01+00:00

I once asked a Psychologist Phd. Type if she thought humans could be over socialized?

She looked at me like I was an alien...

Had my answer right there on her face.. obviously she didnt think so, but was..

Dont worry about what herd animals think... because they really dont.

You make thinking a habit so you get better at it.

Do your own thinkin', its why you were given a potentially magnificent brain.

Those are not magnificent brains you are talking about.

Goaliej · 2021-05-09T19:03:04+00:00

Just another example of how misery loves company. And how people who make stupid decisions often encourage others to make the same stupid decisions to validate their stupidity. "But everyone's doing it, why do you have to be different?" I'm lucky that I have the self-esteem and the ability to think for myself and to make my own decisions despite what society tells me. Sincerely.

JoeSmith1907 · 2021-05-10T00:03:45+00:00

I don't know about some of the advice here. It might be difficult at times but there's a matter of principle involved. If you question others about their blue pill beliefs you make it easier for the next red pill guy. If you get one blue pill guy to think, you've done your part to save him from potential misery down the road.

Let this be an educational experience for you. Your experience has taught you something about your friends, and your school dean. If you hadn't brought your beliefs out to forefront, you never would have known.

On the other hand, it's hard to be red pill in your age group. The guys have been indoctrinated and the girls know they have the upper hand. Things will change as they get older and you'll

If you're not looking at the Manosphere on YouTube, I'd suggest you start. Look at Alexander Grace, Think Before You Sleep, Better Bachelor, Kevin Samuels, and a bunch of others. Study these guys, especially the way Kevin Samuels red pills women. They'll give you tools you can use. If you haven't watched Jordan Peterson's interview with Cathy Newman I recommend that you see it. If nothing else these will help teach you how to maintain frame, and that's half the battle.

Title	How to deal with bluepillers shaming me for not conforming
Author	malignava8d
Upvotes	21
Comments	28
Date	May 8, 2021 7:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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