Background: I'm 36, 6'3, very fit (190@11%), dress well (but rarely wear suits), frequently called "handsome" and "hawt". Recently divorced, I do well with approaches IRL but I'm just getting into Tinder/Bumble. I live an awesome life full of action and activities. I make enough money in a great engineering job but nothing crazy. I'm a musician but not the broke artist kind.

Context: I have an HB6 plate prospect who's a few years younger than me, classy as fuck, makes WAY more money as a lawyer, and has paid for our (2) dates (including an expensive concert). I'm not insecure about this and would like to keep it going...

The couple times we've been out, it's clear (to me) that she's above my level in the social hierarchy of our city. I clean up well enough to not stand out, and all though I don't behave un-congruently with how I normally do in other situations, I recognize that it really isn't my scene.

Question: Has anyone had notable success by emphasizing the fact (to your classy plate or her "people") that she's "slumming it" with you? Did that enhance your Alpha Fucks polarity?