Ok, so last night i had a whole new level of understanding for what people talk about when they discuss girls and Halloween. It was a great night for my ego, and there was a lot of attraction to my passive game (strangely though clustered in the sense that 2-3 girls were MASSIVELY into me, as opposed to more being slightly into me, other than these 2-3 girls who were extremely hot themselves, noone was biting)

Anyway it raised for me a problem for my fledgling skills in active game. Ive been running conscious game for about 2-3 weeks and in that time ive had a fair modicum of success, about 5 phone numbers and 2 F closes before last night. But my active game has always been built around the environment ive found myself in which has been clubs which are reasonably quiet. The kind of places where you can talk to a girl. Thats been my MO. Acquire target, invite their approach (Practical reasons, i cant direct approach at this venue) implement SLIGHT negging while maintaining eye contact and a slightly intense demeanour, bit of push pull, start the kino and see how far i can ride it.

Last night that wasnt an option, this club was A: Far too loud to be able to hear yourself talk let alone someone else. B: Far too packed to really get someone to a quiet place.

This was a place where the MO is to get on the dance floor, dance with a girl, grind up on her and see what develops and heres the problem, i cant do that.

I dont mean i dont have the confidence, last night these girls couldnt have been more blatant with their interest if they painted on their chests "Please come approach me, i want to fuck", my reticence wasnt based upon any idea that I wasnt good enough, or any idea that i might get rejected, i knew i was in. My problem was i simply didnt know how to do it. I'm not afraid of programming a VCR timer, but if i dont know how im gonna have to read the instructions.

I have no idea how to dance in that environment. And when i tried later on by myself i get the impression that although i was mirroring what the other people were doing that somehow i wasnt doing it right. Most girls just sort of gave me that disgusted look they reserve for the unattractive. Fun part being some of them were girls i wouldnt have banged for a gold pig, certainly not up to the standards i was getting IOI from earlier.

I figure i need to know where i went wrong with my later experimentation so that next time im getting such intense IOI in this environment i actually have the skills to make it work. Otherwise im pretty much boned because round here places like this have all of the hottest girls.