I have the following issue:

  1. Girls I date want me to fuck them very rough and dominate them. I want that too.

  2. But naturally the women I date are more on the humane side, don’t create drama out of nothing and we communicate good.

  3. All of the above elements, don’t provoke in me the urge to “punish” the girl and make her my bitch.

They are well behaved, why would I want to spit them in the mouth? Unlike the bitchy bimbo type that always creates drama. There is nothing to gain from those, but I do wanna hate fuck them.

How do I bring out the urge for good rough sex (that girls themselves also want from me) with girls that are not bitches?