Yo I am dating this one girl right now. She is usually ultimately submissive, gives the expected little shit test or resistance when I go for sex, but I always override it or power through somehow.

Lately she’s been telling me that she feels I only invite her out or over for sex. If I’m being real with you guys yes it’s insanely true. Only invite her over because I want to fuck. I know she always enjoys it, so I don’t get what her issue is. She gets my attention care and time and I want sex. I don’t want it to be transactional but if she really stopped fucking me or denied me I wouldn’t really wanna give her anymore of my time.

I am not down to just watch a movie or go on a walk and call it a day. She is a pretty girl that makes me horny to the point where even if I wanted to use self control, I actually end up getting tight that I have to even use self control. I just want to fuck. I don’t care about anything else until my mind is right.

She has been telling me how she feels more consistently and I usually give her my genuine comfort / push it under the rug and do what I want, but she keeps bringing it up and I honestly don’t know how to rock.

I feel like I’ll have to chill with the sex every date thing until she feels that’s not what I want from her but I genuinely don’t want to be fake with her and I am going to go after what I want. If she really doesn’t like it then she can go. I don’t want her to go, but she can go. I have to be me and I don’t want her controlling the sex. I told her I have high test and I like to fuck. She continuously chooses to come over and when I go after what I want, it is not my problem how she feels. I’m only responding to what is natural.

Anyone else know how to ease her mind. I feel like this shit is going to fuck up the relationship.

We have sex like twice or three times every date now. And we date and see each other very often. My time with her is limited since I am leaving the country in a couple months so I know I can see her less but there really is no reason too, I genuinely like hanging out with her too, but she’s hot, what can I say?

Any advice?