Unplugged 6 days ago - excited and sad - TRP is blowing my mind

Nitzi · 2013-11-03T18:41:25+00:00

I got so excited about TRP I forgot the sad part. Its just sad to see that this is all true. Its sad to see the commercials, radio songs and so forth and hear all the subliminal messaging, the programming about how women should see themselves and how men should see women and how men should see themselves. Its no wonder men are so feminized today.

Its sad to see how many of these ideals in our society are harming both men and women, and its clear why our family unit is so broken in this country.

Its sad to see so many men suffer simply as a result of so many wrong views. I mean its one thing to treat women with EQUAL RESPECT as men. But to treat women like men leads nowhere good because women aren't men. You wouldnt treat a cat like a dog, and you wouldnt treat a child like a teenager. In the same way, women are biologically and chemically different than men. At any rate treating women like men led me into the friendzone over and over.

Its interesting to see that the alpha mentality has been largely preserved in ghetto culture in america. I know thats a strange thing to say, and Im glossing over the massive misogyny found in rap music and so forth. However, their approach towards women is always red pill alpha as fuck. Most of the real men in this country are therefore sadly the most oppressed because they are largely black and hispanic. Many of the real men are in lock up doing hard labor for the government. Many of the real red pills are caught up in a socio-economic crisis heavily racially charged situation. Maybe Im wrong, but thats one thing I saw this week. But this too is sad.

I see now that all my male friends are beta, even the ones that have alpha traits have a lot to learn. Thats sad to see.

Its sad to know that my new way of approaching women will change my relationships with the people I know now, and I will most certainly lose a few friends. However it will also be interesting to see how many friend zones I can get out of since women do not base attraction on past action, TRP might be the solution that every man dreams of. Although who knows, maybe being out of the friend zone is a pipe dream. Once they see me with other girls though, that might change fast.

Spiritualpha · 2013-11-03T19:36:59+00:00

I'm gonna keep it real: You got cheated on 3 straight times and still hung on? I've seen niggas kill for less.

On the other hand it's good to have you. Just be warned: Nothing will ever be the same. Your friends won't understand you. Popular Movies and TV shows and music will bother you. Women will want to have sex with you vigorously. It's a rough life my dude.

IllimitableMan · 2013-11-03T19:41:18+00:00

I'm commenting on the negative blue pill aspects here to help any blue pill lurkers/newbies who are reading this and trying to make sense out of a story that they self-identify with.

Its amazing what TRP has done for me in a week alone. Literally my reality has been shattered, Im unplugged, awake, and I can see the code. It happened over night, and its kind of freaky.

Haha sounds corny as hell. Welcome into the fold.

TV, music, movies, and all social interactions suddenly appear different. Strangely clear, but way different.

Yeah. I used to love big bang theory, I still do. Except I don't see how they all put Penny on a fucking pedestal as a "normal thing" anymore, in fact it kind of makes me cringe, and want to cringe hard. That show is so blue pill it's insane. Even her ex boyfriend Zach who had the height/looks/physique was framed by the show as some gormless idiot with no iota of intelligence whatsoever. Bernadette is an shrilly little bitch who has howards balls in her purse, and the show openly laments a double standard in their marriage between what she's allowed to do and what he is, basically she does what she wants but she keeps him on a short leash. She even says in one episode "you're lucky to even have me!" I don't wanna go on about this show too much, especially if you haven't seen it because you won't get the references, needless to say it's a strong example of bluepill/beta behaviour.

You can see it less pronounced in other shows, like in the simpsons bart and homer are fucking retards, lisa, madge and even fucking maggie are smart (maggie gets an episode where shes a child genius). In Fraser, the two brothers are hopelessly beta, one is a beta with no idea, the other is a total fag (not gay, just an extremely effeminate heterosexual.) Be careful for alphas in disguise as betas though (quite rare), like Gus from Breaking Bad who runs pollos hermanos but secretly works for the Mexican cartel. He acted really beta and clean cut but he was a dark triad red pill motherfucker with a beta glazing.

I was betaized early on.

Pussy ass father or a blue pill single mother? Rhetorical question, either one can be the answer.

My whole life is a tribute to white knighthood. Ive openly espoused chivalry as the way men should approach women.

The definition of blue pill, acting like you know your shit but you actually don't. If anyone challenged you on that stance you'd dig your heels in out of delusive pride, but really you know and anyone who's having success knows that what you were saying is pure bullshit.

I've openly agreed with every feminist ideal and never even questioned it (probably because doing so is immediate grounds for a total freak out on the part of all feminist women, men are not allowed to have or voice any dissenting opinion about feminism or else they will be labeled as misogynists).

There's opposing it and getting swarmed by the "anti-misogyny" crew, there's keeping your mouth shut and avoiding interactions about "differences between men and women" with the obvious women who seem like they have a screw loose, that's most of them, and then there's actually joining the wenches in their tirade of bullshit and holding up a tiny little white flag over your crotch. You were in deep my friend.

From the very first girl I was with I was a beta bitch. I asked permission for everything. I asked permission to kiss her. Its no wonder she said no!

Yeah not exactly confident or sexy to be asking to kiss someone. "Take the initiative" is paramount here. Demonstrate your value by being bold. If she's not interested, move on. Gauge a girls interest via her body language. If a random girls eyeballing you a lot, she wants the D.

My first girlfriend (the one I asked to kiss) cheated on me (big wonder).

LOL. She was using you.

My second girlfriend cheated on me as well (I did everything for her, was always compliant, clingy, spent all my time with her, had no other hobbies, insecure, and so forth). My third girlfriend cheated on me too (same reasons as above, less clingy, less insecure, but still really beta and pathetic). In fact by the time I got to my third girlfriend in my mid 20's. Need I even mention what happened with my fourth girlfriend?

Girl 2, 3 and 4 used you to validate their egos and pay for shit, probably cheated on you, once they used you up they prepared a next guy to be with before leaving you and then jumped to the next dick (referred to as branch swinging) funny how I know this without knowing anything about who any of you are. The chances it happened like this are so high we may as well hedge bets.

I expected women to cheat on me and had even rationalized that it was OK because most people are weak and unable to resist sexual temptation.

Well humans are not monogamous creatures unless the mate they are with is extremely high value, and even then a man has many many temptations if he's high enough value to keep a high value chick because all the other chicks want his dick too.

Aside from this, I had only been with three other women. One epic beta failure of a one night stand, one fairly awesome one night stand, and a short three day fling with a chick.

That's pretty fucking amazing for a beta assuming you're under 25. If you're older than that then it speaks for itself, girls have been using you your entire life which is what pushed you to seek out something like TRP.

Basically my only success has been with women outright looking for a beta-provider type.

Confirms what I said about women using you for emotional validation/money.

All other women shoot me down. Of course fat women seem to like me (in fact they seem to prey on poor betas) but I dont personally find large women attractive.

It's a matter of SMV, they think you're in their league/attainable.

My attitude towards women have been completely wrong. Ive been conditioned to feel guilty for wanting casual sex with women. Ive been conditioned to treat women like men. Ive been conditioned to always put all their needs and wants first to such an extent that I rationalized not getting involved with a great deal of women because I "didnt want to hurt them" as though anyone can enter into having relationships without it getting messy from time to time. Ive been conditioned to not go for what I want with them, the idea that basically just touching, kissing, and fucking a girl because I want to made me feel like I was a creep, bordering on raping a girl (which I would never do).

Yeah feminism does that if you ingest it fully. It frames you as the evil/needy/weak entity that needs to fit a bunch of requirements and quotas in order to be validated. The thing is, it's all bullshit. Women need men more than vice versa psychologically speaking, men just need to fuck - that's the reality, feminism tries to inflate the price of sex by denying the psychological element under the guise of equality, but end of the day despite their machiavellianism and ability to move on easily women need a relationship/male attention to feel like their existence is validated.

In short, my whole life Ive been a beta, betaized early on, I was conditioned to be basically everything a woman finds unattractive in a man.

Good thing you came to the realisation you weren't having success so you could start making changes in your life.

And one thing from the post change:

The best part is I feel light hearted. I haven't fucked any new women yet, but this has been a great week. These results are great for someone like myself who has had zero success. I've been rejected a few times, just girls with no interest in me, and it didn't phase me. Its strange to suddenly and abruptly understand women, understand why they are saying what they are saying, and why they are dong what they are doing. I feel like Mel Gibon in "What Women Want". I cant turn it off.

Get rejected a lot. It's good stuff. It's medicine. It may taste like shit to begin with but it helps you. Once a woman has no power in her choice to reject you, an incredible amount of anxiety suddenly becomes absent from your interactions with women, the worst she can do is reject you and you don't even give a fuck about that now. Self-development is about more than notches, number closing, k-closing, successful flirting with co-workers or whatever, it's about being a more confident, fulfilled and more mentally stable person and that of course inevitably manifests by leading to the former. There's no rush at all, just be moving upwards.

gg_s · 2013-11-03T18:46:31+00:00

I see it in porn now too. Alpha men fucking the women that the beta men want to be fucking. The slow transition to cuckolding of various kinds becoming normalized in porn. I imagine the legion of horny beta men jacking off to porn constantly because they never get laid (like myself) and it all makes sense. No wonder porn is such a huge industry. Its one giant release valve for the pent up sexual tension and aggression of what... 80% of the undersexed male population? Wow... Another eye opener.

steadymotion · 2013-11-03T19:02:49+00:00

Well said, OP.

cugar · 2013-11-03T19:03:57+00:00

dude, you get it, great post and i can relate, you've said a lot that i can't explain myself because i'm not great with words, also your tldr is awesome ahah

watersign · 2013-11-04T03:23:27+00:00

don't ask, just do

Human_v2 · 2013-11-03T18:57:14+00:00

Chill out man

[deleted] · 2013-11-04T02:16:48+00:00

Ironically as a beta Ive had years to sit in bars and observe social interactions as an outside and interested observer. On some level Ive just been collecting data for over a decade.

Ive seen what works over and over, Ive just been denying to myself that it works and telling myself that it shouldnt. Shoulda, coulda, woulda, it is what it is.

throwaway_5511 · 2013-11-04T03:47:14+00:00

That is an impressive transformation!! If and when possible, try and understand and document exactly what it is that catalyzed this change. I'd be very interested to know more

[deleted] · 2013-11-04T05:07:58+00:00

Ive openly espoused chivalry as the way men should approach women.

In defense of chivalry...

trembley3000 · 2013-11-04T06:06:12+00:00

the big thing with girls (in addition to a lot of the things you mentioned) is to not give a fuck about rejection.

Lots of women (or dudes depending what you like) decide before they go out that they don't want to hook up or start anything new romantically. Nothing you can do against that but try, and if you fail keep looking for someone who'll be receptive to your charm and confidence!

[deleted] · 2013-11-03T19:33:01+00:00

Holy wall of text, Batman.

Congratulations on the realisation, now make your life better because of it. Read, read, read, and practice.

[deleted] · 2013-11-04T00:45:38+00:00

Its strange because deep down I knew this was the way, but I hated that fact. I didn't want to accept it. In a sense that's an alpha trait, not giving up, sticking up for what you believe in, and maintaining that even at the great personal cost of being a beta. Being a beta has made me a better person. Its like fertilizer for my new growth. Each failure, each beta aspect is transformed as more and more TRP is digested.

Yeah, rejection is medicine. It feels good. Each time I am more empowered in my next encounter. Women themselves are fueling my success because WOMEN WANT the Alpha to succeed. They do this unconsciously, but their positive reinforcement of my behavior has a strong chemical basis, all my reward systems go on, I feel good about myself, I feel good in my body, and so my brain and body want to keep building these habits and it becomes a feedback loop.

Its delusional to plow ahead with a set of actions, beliefs and habits that you know is wrong and causing you to fail over and over again and continuing to do so is as they say the definition of insanity.

Total madness.

[deleted] · 2013-11-04T12:25:16+00:00

Ive made things like the "nod" when you get an IOI from a HB from across the bar a natural trait.

This one sounds interesting, and I thought I've read it all. Mind explaining?

redpilldude · 2013-11-03T19:18:15+00:00

Congratulations on getting unplugged. Now, hit the gym and start learning game. You've got a long way to go before you're ready to spin plates or have a relationship with a Red Pill Woman.

AlmostRP · 2013-11-04T00:55:33+00:00

If you want other women to see your dick you can streak on national tv. Not saying it's a good idea, but if it'd make you feel better... go for it.

Nitzi · 2013-11-03T20:11:31+00:00

Adamantine_Mine enjoy this time, soon you will realize how fucked the red pill is.

Title	Unplugged 6 days ago - excited and sad - TRP is blowing my mind
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Date	November 3, 2013 6:24 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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