Quick rundown:

  • gf had surgery and isn't allowed to have sex for six to eight weeks, currently one week in
  • before, we had sex 3+ times a day consistently
  • after surgery, as said, no penetration (no anal either), but she enjoys giving head
  • can't coom from bjs though, which leaves both of us frustrated and unsatisfied

So long story short, I can't have sex with my gf but my sexdrive is sky high and it's driving me crazy (she's saying the same). I've already decided to reduce our meetups and I might leave town for a few weeks, even if that might strain our relationship. Cheating on her would technically be possible with near-zero chance of getting caught but I think I'm still too moralistic to not feel guilty about it and confess to her afterwards. I don't wanna go back to being a coomer either as I used to be one and I still have to deal with the long term effects. The only feasible thing would be to somehow force myself too cum from her bjs, but I have no idea if that's possible (is it?) and even if it is, learning it would probably take longer than her actual recovery.

So do any of you guys have some advice for me? I'm kinda lost here.