Which of you guys living the celibate life?

SammySilver09 · 2020-10-22T01:49:30+00:00

I've heard that you can either love women or understand women, but you can't do both.

When I was in my teens and 20s, I didnt understand women, so I chased them and wanted their validation. Now in my 30s l, I understand women, so I find very little interest in dealing with them at all.

Women are like a magic trick, the more you see it. The less interesting it is, and if you ever learn how the trick is done, You'll feel stupid for not seeing it all along.

MGTOWlF7xEtsJyj · 2020-10-22T03:01:08+00:00

I'm 36 and celibate, virgin, and never been on a date or kissed a girl.

To me, this is the only way to live.

I see on this subreddit men dating and dealing with women and I have to wonder why, when it's so much simpler to stay single.

gentle_lemon · 2020-10-22T01:18:53+00:00

Yeah, there's just no joy left in chasing the coochie: the allure lies in the getting, not in the having. I don't want to spend 23+ hours of the day putting up with some insufferable hag and all of her craziness for a 2 minute BJ and 3 minutes of starfish sex. I got that shit out of my system a long time ago.

But, the argument is: it's a biological *NEED* to have sex.... You know what else is a biological need? Taking a shit...but you're able to control that just fine. I don't see the difference.

Misogynist-youth · 2020-10-22T01:15:36+00:00

Yes.

I'm on track to retire before I'm 50.

I get to fully focus on my sport in the twilight of my physical peak. (Early 30's)

I do what I want in my other free time, not needing to worry about catering my time and money to a woman in case they think I'm neglecting her.

It's like being a kid again, with a job and money to spend and no parents.

Texian_Fusilier · 2020-10-22T02:16:34+00:00

Swore off it shortly after #metoo happened. I was 22. I'm 25 now

YouSaidChicken · 2020-10-22T02:10:45+00:00

I am and yes.

tanu3151 · 2020-10-22T09:39:29+00:00

I am a retainer.

ElGuero1717 · 2020-10-22T13:11:46+00:00

Just knowing that around a third of all women carry some kind of venereal disease kills the mood for me.

It's not the odds, it's the stakes.

m1ghty_b4g · 2020-10-22T03:32:47+00:00

Yep. Here we go no matter what.

CrossfadeAMV · 2020-10-22T07:08:57+00:00

I am in my 30. I am closer and closer to it. Sex is fun but far from the way mass media sell it to us. Listening to music, eating pizza, lifting is also fun and a lot less problematic.

If I really have the urge, I visit a pro (maybe twice a year?). But even that is recently very low on the list. I would be happy if it will dissapear. More $ for me ;)

freedomcomesfromwith · 2020-10-22T07:53:33+00:00

I do. It's rewarding because I can focus on many other things like business, gym, shooting, motorbikes, etc. It's not rewarding because chasing tail can be a thrill (up to a point when you become good in it and challenge goes away). Sex is rather pointless.

MGTOW_Chum · 2020-10-22T01:49:17+00:00

Haven’t had sex in a few years. I’ve been tempted to date again twice and got on tinder, exhausted my area and didn’t find one match that may be a good potential.

Overall it’s not that bad. I’ve done so much for myself in those years it’s amazing. I’ve gotten a couple invites in the wild that got me thinking but in the end it’s just not worth it.

There are mgtow that date and go for it if it’s your fancy, but I’m not about to spend my precious time seeking it out.

All the time people start bitching about their wives or kid issues, specially with covid. My response every time is with a huge smile and “So happy I didn’t sign up for that!” Most dismiss it but I know that it sinks in later. Even said it in a job interview, cause I’m confident and had offers with every other company I applied to.

In the end, be happy and set goals for yourself. Work toward them and you’re golden!

I might add that I have a very headset and vr porn is insane. Haha, downloaded one called “girlfriend experience” last night and the first 10 minutes was her bitching about the subject not doing chores. I let out a good chuckle to that.

Best of luck!

IterantImprovement · 2020-10-22T10:23:04+00:00

Do you find it more rewarding that chasing tale?

I love that this statement has an inherent double meaning. Yes to both. I find it much more rewarding than chasing physical tail or the fairy tale.

After kicking the last LTR to the curb, I've been flying solo for the last 4 years now. The chaos is gone. I'm free to follow my own goals without having to consider the feelings or goals of other people. It's incredibly freeing to not have to cater to the whims of another person who demands you take responsibility for their happiness or current mood in general. Don't get me wrong though, the drive to have sex is still there and quite strong, but the discipline to not accept the offers is a lot better. I no longer interview for jobs that I don't want.

I've been thinking of an analogy for the chase a bit; Have you ever played a MMO or death match type of game for a significant period of time. Then about 10 years later you look back at all the time invested and realized that it didn't amount to really anything tangible? The only thing you got better at in that timeframe was playing the game, however, it didn't really lend itself to improvements in any other area of your life. I view chasing validation from those that you don't respect as that kind of waste as well.

StormyBeef · 2020-10-22T10:42:38+00:00

Do you find it more rewarding that chasing tale?

Of course.

Let's say sugar is bad for your health, maybe you're diabetic or something. You live without eating sugar. Sometimes you miss it a little bit after a heavy meal, but then you remember how dangerous it is and how bad it can make you feel. So you get over it. And you live on healthily without eating sugar, deriving pleasure from other sources.

It's the same thing.

ThotQuestion · 2020-10-22T16:07:38+00:00

One man's hand can replace an entire female. What do you think?

Zudiak · 2020-10-22T16:16:01+00:00

I guess?

I have a foot disabillity but it's not crippling. Meaning that I can still live my daily life like most people. However this disabillity really shows from the outside. My feet are crooked and I have difficulty walking in a straight line and also balance issues.

Because of the trauma and bullying I've received I am considered "celibate" but I've visited brothels in the past and will do so in the future.

I don't give a shit what society thinks and neither should you.

gsharm · 2020-10-22T10:12:28+00:00

Yes.

Adal345 · 2020-10-23T02:16:25+00:00

I hire an escort here and there... Well, I go to a brothel actually, I'm not that rich. It works every time. With no wife or kids, there is always some money for sex. I feel sorry for my American fellas that think that is dirty and classify it as a crime. It's a biological need, nothing more than that. You're an animal not a divine spirit. I wish you peace.

rocko20002 · 2020-10-22T03:55:05+00:00

I'm an incel in that regard. I still like pussy, but because COVID-19, I'm refraining. Not that it's the first time I've gone celibate. It's one of those things that I can go without.

TooAwareToCare · 2020-10-23T12:03:22+00:00

I do and there isn’t much I miss from dating or relationships tbh

I rarely enjoy the company of another to the point where it’s better than my own company and if I’m lonely there’s never been a particular person who could fix that

My desires for women and relationships were vague and impulsive

My need for solitude and mental relaxation is more real to me

If I’m particularly bored I’ll crave sex but honestly there’s better stuff for that as well

Title	Which of you guys living the celibate life?
Author	blackstreetxy
Upvotes	48
Comments	49
Date	October 22, 2020 1:07 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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