Tinder Girl Wants to Bring a Friend to My Place

RPSigmaStigma · 2016-11-11T23:58:12+00:00

"Sure! I'll invite a few friends too, we'll have a party."

rpisnotpua · 2016-11-12T09:36:18+00:00

Ordinarily, A&A. But for a tinder girl...JUST STAY SILENT. She's trying to re-frame the date, and you don't want that. Don't respond at all, until she changes her offer. She wants to bring a friend, because she isn't comfortable being alone with you, but she likes the attention. You could bag her, but it will be a lot more work to roll with the punches if she brings a friend, even if you invite friends of your own and have a party...for a girl you barely know.

If you respond, you have to treat it like a joke ("I didn't know you were bi"). You have to assume she's coming to fuck you, and she has to have plausible deniability, but a friend being there changes everything, not just the mood.

As far as you're concerned, the date is off until it's going to be just the two of you. Otherwise she's wasting your time (and why wouldn't she? She has a guy 7 years older showing interest in her, she's really excited and wants to keep it going as long as possible!).

Kalidane · 2016-11-12T06:52:56+00:00

You've assumed the friend is female, or she was clear about that?

Anyway, you're thinking heaps. Try to do anything else. It's self-sabotaging.

If you're expecting your own private island for xmas and all you get is a lousy 5 bedroom house in the hills, you're gonna be mighty disappointed. Even though it's awesome.

"Do or do not. There is no try." - John F. Kennedy

mydogfartzwithz · 2016-11-12T03:42:58+00:00

Safe not same*

2cingle · 2016-11-12T06:17:39+00:00

She's 17- is she underage in your state with respect to drinking? Maybe she wants to bring her Mom.

If you want to go through with this, OK the friend as long as the friend brings a date unless you can 'fix her up' with one of your buddies. Then you all go out and do something legal.

In the meantime, I think you should know better than this.

dr_warlock · 2016-11-12T15:08:56+00:00

Will she be 18 at the time of the hangout?

Atticus_Crowley · 2016-11-12T17:49:01+00:00

Stop watching porn, you're not getting a threesome. If she wants to bring a friend along and you're ok with it, meet at like...well not a bar since she's just a baby, so...applebees? A casual place where you can meet, and then if you don't come off creepy as fuck, you'll be able to take her home by herself and have the date you actually planned on having.

LordThunderbolt · 2016-11-14T20:32:36+00:00

Ask if the friend looks good and request a pic. Set the frame of the night now. Might turn into a 3sum.

Had that happen to me pre RP. Had just started seeing this girl. 3rd time coming over, we had already fucked but I couldn't cum at the time (before nofap). She asked if she could being her friend, I say yes. Friend was fine too but I was so bp I didn't see what was up. She kept making sexual comments like "Gees I sure am cockblocking right now". BP me unaware just ignores. A 3some at the time sounded so out of this world to me that it didn't even cross my mind. I'm black and she had a racist beta boyfriend that she video called while they were both sitting next to me. I realize now that she wanted to cuck him with me in a 3sum with the girl I was seeing. I know that for sure because I'm BBC crew and the girl was bragging to her friends about it, so I guess that's what inspired the 3sum. Nothing ended up happening. Eventually we left my house and went out to eat and the friend was giving me a confused stink eye the whole nighlol.

I was so fucking blue pill back then. I had zero sexual energy from daily tapping. To this day I regret not plowing those two hoes at once. Don't make the same mistake.

[deleted] · 2016-11-12T01:28:58+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJ6QylmIYDw

mydogfartzwithz · 2016-11-12T03:42:19+00:00

She is bringing her friend (if she's hot) so she can have a three way If you botch it and they both agree you're a failure with women there will be no three way If you succeed and they're drunk enough and you put in the energy and mood to get them to start thinking about making out with each other and they do. Well you're solid. Take it from someone who had that exact scenario. But in the "real" hamtaro world, she's doing it to feel same. But welcome to trp

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2016-11-12T02:54:16+00:00

I don't know many 18yr old girls that are into threesomes; especially ones they set up with their friends. She is more likely bringing someone on the offchance you're a serial killer.
Just ask if the friend is going to join or watch.

Title	Tinder Girl Wants to Bring a Friend to My Place
Author	Cyphe
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	November 11, 2016 11:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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