I have been 'seeing' this guy for the last year. We both live in separate European countries.

The issue is that he has never really communicated to me what we were and I have been dreading bring up this conversation with him because I know that men are suppose to be the one to communicate relationship status.

It seems that he is more than willing to go with the flow and leave most decisions up to me.

Here's a copy of the conversation:

[Me] You've literally called me your friend made no commitment or anything over the last year

[Him] When you told me you had fallen in love i supposed we were (I shouldn't have told him I loved him)

[Him] Doing as much as posible to Meet you , with a pandemic and brexit isnt an action?

[Him] How the hell i dont care if im being searching for a job at UK just to stay with you

[Him] Well , 3 weeks ago i though we were on a relationship , right now i have no idea , i really want to keep meeting you but this is your choice (last week I told him that we were basically nothing)

[Me] You thought

[Me] You thought

[Me] Have you communicated that?

[Him] So (Name), what do you want to do with the relationship?

[Me] Your willingness to say goodbye so easily is so suspect

[Me] Theres no communicated action on your part

[Him] Cause you told me im worthless to you

[Me] I don't know

[Me] But I'm erring on the side of lead go

[Me] Maybe it would be for the best

[Him] Take some days to think on it

[Him] Think on It and give me the answer when you decide

A few weeks ago he told me that I should come and give him babies. I'm not really sure what to do as I really like him. Please help.

Thanks.