I'm wondering what steps people take to prevent getting herpes. As I follow RP, the one mental block I can't get over is my paranoia of getting herpes. Every time I've fucked, I'm left worrying about this shit the next day.

Condoms don't stop it, any woman with a sexual history can have it, and its very common. I want to minimize my chances of getting it, but what steps can you take?

I know people will say that its no big deal, but Id rather not have an incurable condition that I have to disclose to any woman I sleep with.

So do you do anything to lower your risk of getting herpes, and if you do, what?