Hear me out. You have a date with a female at 9pm. A twink who slid in your DMs ask wyd that night. You meet him before hand at the same bar you plan on meeting the HB at. He then proceeds to shower you in complements and colourful expensive cocktails.

At 9pm your date arrives (you’ve mentioned to the twink you’re meeting with a close Girlfriend later because she had a death in the family and wants someone she trusts to talk to) she sees the gay man (potentially pre selection?) all over you. The twink says hi to your date and good bye to you.

You’re in a great mood because you’re half cut and had your ego thoroughly pumped up. Also you’ve mentioned to the twink you want to take things slow so he has no expectations of a lay that night.

Thoughts?