Should you tell her you don't want a relationship?

lolomotif12 · 2021-06-16T21:28:40+00:00

Don't focus on relationship status, that's the woman's job. You just enjoy yourself, you are not obliged to explain to anyone anything.

ass-thetics · 2021-06-16T21:52:42+00:00

Don't lead them on. If they really enjoy your dick they'll stick around either way.

MattyAnon · 2021-06-17T00:25:16+00:00

When meeting new women, do you tell them immediately that you don't want a relationship? At what point do you tell them? I just want to spin plates.

No, I don't mention it.

BUT...... I carry myself as if I have other women in my life...... not always available, not always willing to make another date, gaps where she doesn't know what I'm doing, not too much communication.

Generally she'll go along with things, at least for a while. Eventually you'll get The Talk, but it will not be with the expectation that you'll be exclusive with her.

wanker7171 · 2021-06-17T03:33:15+00:00

This is where the art of telling sweet nothings like a politician is really helpful. Since making them feel good usually overrides the initial concern. Then after that they'll be fine with it until they aren't.

Intrepid_Place5390 · 2021-06-17T11:34:57+00:00

For a woman who proves herself worthy of a relationship. Always open to one. But there are so few that are worthy

adam-l · 2021-06-16T21:40:22+00:00

If you get really pressed, just say "If I'm very much in love..." This should at least boost the BJs for a while.

AuberyBitoni · 2021-06-17T08:05:42+00:00

I always lie that I just came out of a long term relationship, and I'm not looking for anything serious. They never make a big deal out of it.

kclanton80 · 2021-06-17T12:57:55+00:00

Most women are not going to ask you up front if you are looking for a relationship unless you are dealing with some used up tender thots or women quickly approaching the wall. You should avoid these women anyway.

Never confirm or deny that you're looking for a relationship. You were just meeting new people and whatever comes comes. You're not against relationships and if the right person comes along you're open to one but you're not in search of a relationship.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-06-21T00:15:45+00:00

Yes. The word "dating" now means "I want to fuck without a relationship".

TravisScottNL · 2021-06-16T21:41:33+00:00

I just ignore/change the subject or say something we will see how it goes and keep doing my thing till she gets fed up. Find new girl and repeat the process.

I do have to say that some girls have no problem with you not wanting a LTR tho.

Title	Should you tell her you don't want a relationship?
Author	mrpleaser97
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	June 16, 2021 9:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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