In your experience, are women self-aware of their shit tests?

RichieTheWise · 2021-06-22T07:12:08+00:00

They do it based om feeling. They know what they do, but not always why. Men aren't much different in that regard. Take bullying for example, people bully to find out eachother's boundaries, but do they know why they do it? No, they just do it because it feels fun. People in general just operate based on how they feel in the moment.

And for a woman to realise she only shittested a guy only to see if he will stand up for himself because that's attractive to her, takes a lot of self realisation that most people simply don't have, and perhaps that's for the best

MattyAnon · 2021-06-22T11:05:39+00:00

In your experience, are women self-aware of their shit tests?

Yes, but it's an instinctive drive to do it.

Women are very negative, cautious, fearful. So in conversations with a stranger they assume the worst and then act on it. It's up to the man to prove her wrong.

There is also a massive socially driven inclination for "woman first". If a man seems to be getting his way, eg she likes him, she tries to throw a spanner in the works to regain control/power/ego.

it seems kind of bizarre that a staple of the human mating process has been so under the radar for so long

Not under the radar: it's misunderstood. Previously men took what women said seriously. Now we realise it's just a shit test.

but do women really go their whole lives without noticing this pattern in their own behavior in themselves and their friends?

Women are PR geniuses. They rephrase all their behaviour to make themselves look good, including and especially lying about motive (which generally can't be disproven)

RedPilledRebels · 2021-06-22T07:42:56+00:00

In my experience it's completely subconscious.

This is her testing your frame and Masculinity. She's seeing how much of a rock you are as a man. If you're strong enough to remain solid at all times. This is just to test for strong Genetics and it's totally subconscious. You should read that book on women psychology, they break down the historic aspect of it.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-06-22T20:13:48+00:00

No they aren't, at all. Like 90% of religion is about telling women how to behave and 10% telling men. It wasn't until recent studies uncovered the instinctual stuff that we became aware of the truth. As early back as the 50s there was a psychological condition in women called "hysteria". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female\_hysteria

Intrepid_Place5390 · 2021-06-22T12:23:52+00:00

are some women self-aware of shit tests?

some are, some aren't. Some are incredibly unaware of just about anything.

TheeRickySpanish · 2021-07-05T19:00:31+00:00

Very rarely do women behave the way they do methodically. It’s more often reactionary to a man’s behavior or social caliber. When I was blue pilled I got shit tested a lot because it was obvious I was chasing a relationship and becoming infatuated with women early on. Now a days I don’t run into any of those issues because I know how to not make myself too available.

Despisable · 2021-06-23T20:24:45+00:00

Some more than others.

Lisichka_smokem · 2021-07-03T14:31:26+00:00

They are aware but they usually do it unconsciously

Natural_Singer · 2021-07-08T06:19:20+00:00

Ive met maybe 3 out of allll the women ive ever met in my entire life at 35.

Statistically, no

Title	In your experience, are women self-aware of their shit tests?
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Date	June 22, 2021 6:39 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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