Just a random thought

DatRndmDude · 2021-07-12T21:51:06+00:00

I’m happy giving part of my pay check to my children’s mother, because it’s good for my kids.

None of your money goes to kids.

I’m happy for my children to live with their mum most of the time, because she’s more present physically than I am (or tbh want to be right now) and frankly a really good parent to them.

Stop simping. Children need a father figure otherwise they become messed up.

non-w0ke · 2021-07-12T22:40:10+00:00

They are not your kids. They may share your DNA, but your ex wife owns them.

Not gonna judge whatever you tell yourself about how you are a good parent, happy to pay, etc. Billions of simps do that, nothing new here to see.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-07-12T21:47:38+00:00

Your being lucky and then expecting everybody else to be as happy and conformed as you are, obviously the mother of your kids happened to be a good mother right.
The problem is when the mother is agressive and disrepects you and doesnt allow you to see or take any part in the children life and so on and on thats where the complains come from.
This is not the place to praise women wtf haha go to literally everywhere else to find women being praised.

mgtowmale · 2021-07-12T21:58:56+00:00

I think you're missing the point that most men end up here as the result of a series of painful experiences. We're not robots - it takes some of us years to get through the "red pill rage" and accept our new reality, and some may never make it.

I agree it'd be nice if we were all... balanced. If we were all level-headed, and didn't get angry and make pejorative posts. However, for many, this is the only place they can come and speak their mind, where they can be honest, where they can vent, and let stuff of their chest.

It sounds like you've been pretty fortunate that the mother of your children is a good mother, and someone you seem to genuinely care for. How would it feel if she were horrible, and leveraged a broken legal system to prevent you from seeing your kid? To extract money out of you completely against your will, under threat of prison time? Who would you talk to about it? Where would you vent?

What leads most men to MGTOW is most certainly disbalanced, and as much as I'd wish things otherwise, I accept the fact that people here are at times emotional and angry. There are also many others who are constructive, considerate, and inspirational.

jhooperp · 2021-07-12T22:35:44+00:00

Dude you don’t get it. You’re still looking at things the way you’ve been trained “men mostly bad women mostly good”.

We aren’t against fathers at all. We get it. A lot of people see the truth after they become a parent. We’ve never said don’t take care of your kids yet you come on here insinuating that; A typical response.

Take care of your kids. Ain’t no one said not to. But you should fight for your kids for full custody like women do. Stop just assuming women should get the kids and don’t put effort in getting full custody. Stop.

Fight for full custody and fight to make her pay child support.

The other issue is that women get to have choices after sex but men don’t. Women can have an abortion or literally leave baby at certain government buildings with no repercussions while men are forced to pay up if she decides to keep the baby.

Either way if you want your kids fight to get them and stop just letting someone else raise them.

justaguy529 · 2021-07-12T23:01:43+00:00

easy, don't have children. in most of the cases of broken households the woman uses the children as a tool to allow the government to extract resources from the man. women are incentivized to keep children from their fathers. also we do not recruit so we do not care to make a comfortable space to entice outsiders. if this is not the place for you then you are more than free to find something that is more in line with your ideologies.

crityouallday · 2021-07-12T22:01:01+00:00

You want balance and equality? Give men the money, give men the praise and compliments, the pat on their backs and the help they need to equalize homelessness.

Women have been entitled all their lives since they are accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.

MoralsAreBaseless · 2021-07-13T00:02:13+00:00

I have children. What you fail to see is that mgtow is not a war against women, it is running away from the highly abusive governments which have made using women and these days children to control men their priority. If you are giving child support to the mother of your children, why shouldn't you be allowed to have say in how it's spent on them?

generic-affliction · 2021-07-12T22:22:36+00:00

You can have kids and still 100% MGTOW

When you divorce you can treat your ex like Hagar and the child like Ishmael then send them to the desert like in the Old Testament

bamabeatsny · 2021-07-12T23:54:57+00:00

Yup, you're still deluded. Your ex does NOT have your best interest at heart, and whether you want to admit it to yourself or not, she IS using or WILL USE your kids as weapons against you. She WILL badmouth about you to your kids. Guaranteed.

If she's so great, why aren't you still together?

I was NOT happy to give "child support" to my ex because I knew that NONE of that money ever went to the kid. Ever. She redid the damn house, some rooms twice, all new furniture, and had money to party every weekend. She is a cheating (multiple partners / incidents, lying, piece of shit human being. "Nothing" was ever her fault. To this day - same attitude. 100 percent crazy.

The girl who I was with following my broken marriage, destroyed my life, used me, lied to my face, cheated on me, lied to me some more, etc - piece of shit human being. "Nothing" she did was wrong either. Wanted to go play the field. Read 50 Shades of Grey and also The Game, and acted on those depraved thoughts. POS.

You want me to praise the other women in my life? Fine, that I don't have a problem with. My mom is an amazing, understanding, no bullshitting, balanced (and Godly) person. She has a set of values / principles that guide her life, and she's not a typical woman. She has been this way my entire life. My sister is very much the same - a godly person - and her husband is too, and keeps her in line. And, she WANTS to be kept in line. She knows she plays an important role in the marriage.

There. 2 great women.

My impression of this sub is NOT one of imbalance. This sub contains truth. Today's women are virtually worthless. The vast MAJORITY of them are whore-cunt-sluts that are for the streets, and have the notch count and std history to prove it. The men here don't hate women.

The men here don't hate women.

We do hate though. We hate women's depraved actions and choices that cause them no consequences, AND, they have free reign to not only blame men instead, but are celebrated when they do. I hate their bullshit. I hate their smug double standard driven personas. You know what I hate most? I hate that they get away with what they're doing KNOWING FULL WELL WHAT they are doing to men and society. Oh yes they fucking do know it! And they think it's funny as hell.

There is SO MUCH documented evidence available here - scientific studies - that PROVE the overall degeneracy of women. Not small portion. The vast majority.

Are men perfect? Hell no. But MGTOW isn't the cause. It's a reaction. We've decided that relationshits with women just aren't worth it, because, women just aren't worth it. They really offer no value today. And that's their own fault.

sauceboss6969420 · 2021-07-13T02:24:19+00:00

The only woman I trust is my mother. Everyone else has ulterior motives. When you know to look for it, you'd be surprised what coworkers, cousins, even randos on the street think they can get away with because they have a wet hole between their legs.

Low_Echidna4462 · 2021-07-13T03:22:59+00:00

Your kids need a father. Thier real father.

gtowerthrowaway · 2021-07-13T04:57:29+00:00

So what do you want to discuss, giving money to your wife to take care of the kids or,

praise the women in their lives?

This is just more cuckery.

Title	Just a random thought
Author	Sad_Mammoth2802
Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	July 12, 2021 9:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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