Toxic is the word thrown around when I talk about my preferences in a lifelong partner, not a sexual partner. Women are simply fine being used as a temporary source of instant gratification, but those are not the type of woman I want to be loyal to. And I have noticed that too often, having even a modicum of self-value or self-respect as a man is seen as a threat to women’s way of life.

But why?

I am an old fashion guy. I wish to have the “American Dream.” You know, a good job, a housewife, kids. Being an old fashion man, I hear how women want a guy like me, but I do not want a woman like them. An old fashion guy wants an old fashion gal. I do not want a woman with a high body count, a history of drug use, or promiscuity. I do not want daddy issues or extreme mental illness. I do not want stepchildren. And above all, I want someone who will be as loyal to me as I will be towards them.

I get shouted at for not dating single moms. For expecting that my future wife would not have a “hoe phase.” For not wanting to carry someone else’s baggage. Someone with wisdom and understanding when it comes to life and money. I do not have someone else’s debt over my head. No Only Fans, no social media addiction; I don’t want anyone who has shown her body and someone who can’t keep their private life on stage for all to see.

I know many men feel the same way, but so very rarely do I see anyone speak out about it. We men drip poison into the ears of women we are interested in; we lie to get on their good side. If I tell a woman I cannot see myself with someone with a high body count, an army of men will tell her that I am sexist. We need to stop this. It is not getting any of them laid, and it is not helping these women’s future.

We need to band together and express that our interests and preferences are real, not sexist, and natural. Since the marketplace is full of wares, I do not want to spend money on I have decided to go monk for the time being. Yeah, that is all I just wanted to rant.