Im a bit lost

roxon89 · 2020-11-14T13:45:11+00:00

Was this a surprise to you when you got these test results?

46415241 · 2020-11-14T14:56:23+00:00

are you a "nice guy"?

get a book called NO MORE MR NICE GUY by Glover.

it changed my entire fucking life.

2020-11-14T13:44:22+00:00

Before Jordan Peterson was slandered, I enjoyed his 'Personality and its Transformations' series on YouTube. I recommend diving in to all 15 hours, but how about a 5 minute video where he discusses "assertiveness" and "agreeableness", and how to become more assertive if you are agreeable. https://youtu.be/F0SW-FXW9h4

ABicycleRide · 2020-11-14T19:20:51+00:00

Don't worry. Focus on improving your own person, your own life, your own future, find your passions by trying new things, strive to spend much less than you earn by not buying shit you don't need, by finding what exactly makes you tick for real. Ditch your need for external validation.

Be bold.

Guaranteed happiness.

2020-11-14T15:33:19+00:00

Join a martial arts club.

HelpPliz410 · 2020-11-14T19:10:03+00:00

i dont know about the depressive thing cause life is pretty shit overall but you can change the submissive once you stop fearing death nothing will move you . and everyone who dare to make you a enemy destroy them with no remorse .

Perseus_the_Bold · 2020-11-15T03:23:17+00:00

The tapestry of your life is dictated by the quality of your thoughts. Change your thoughts and change your life. Get a new perspective, find another world view, change your attitude.

Find you what is causing your depressive and submissive tendencies first. There is no next step if you do not know yourself first.

S_Taera · 2020-11-15T14:00:05+00:00

The first step to solve a problem is by admitting that there's a problem in the first place and you have done just that, you have passed the hardest step, some people stuck in this phase their whole life busy looking for external solution and never even once crossed their mind to look inside themselves.

Submissives come from lack of confidence, you have to find out what is the source of your confidence yourself, it's different for every person, it can be your wealth, your profession, your social status, your connection, your family, believes, religion, ideology, life's philosophy etc. My point is you need to find something worth fighting for, something that can give you courage to stand your ground when getting pressured in life.

Of all the things i mentioned above, the most absolute answer is to love yourself and consider your life, your very existence worth fighting/defending for (careful not to confuse this with those trashy "King/Queen narcissistic personality disorder" you know what i mean), which i personally find the hardest to do. Wealth, power, connection, believes is not absolute, they can change and gone as time goes by, but loving yourself is till death.

Ps : You don't need to force yourself acting tough or icecold if that's not your personality, not all men need to be an intimidating dominant tough badass guy that eat rocks for breakfast. Once we accept this, we will getting better at positioning ourself in every situation hence come confidence, Oh and meditation helps in better understanding yourself too if you're into that

BlackSandstone · 2020-11-16T17:53:24+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOAgplgTxfc watch/listen to this - You can't fight an enemy without a basic understanding of what it is.
Consider getting intervention - a few months of experimenting with anti-depressants may well lead you into a completely new life - Can attest this as it happened to me 11 years ago, and lead to completion of my degree and a modest career.
If you don't want to go the professional medical route for whatever reason, unless you are taking any other medicine, try St. John's Wort (again, for a month, minimum, unless you have a reaction). It has some convincing studies behind it as a natural anti-depressant and, more significantly, an anti-estrogen effect.

Solve depression first, because it can be solved. If your body chemistry is against you, you have to subjugate it before you can build further. You may well find that once your brain meats are the correct juiciness, the submissive element will go away - or at least the instinctual driver behind it.

crowsnofootsnow56 · 2020-11-16T18:31:51+00:00

"service" do you mean army service?

N00B5L4Y3R69 · 2020-11-19T03:56:28+00:00

I think that is a question you should ask your psychologist

Title	Im a bit lost
Author	Waffletraktor000
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	November 14, 2020 1:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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