Can a guy whose never been in a relationship go MGTOW?

ChocChat · 2020-11-03T11:54:26+00:00

38 year old here. Had some terrible relationships and some good ones. Single now on easy mode.
My personal advice is to give a relationship a go however keep your mgtow knowledge close. I think it's important to experience a relationship at least once while you are young. Others might disagree and rightfully so but it is just my personal take on experiencing lifes joys.

victor_knight · 2020-11-03T12:36:58+00:00

I wouldn't risk a relationship. Get some girls-for-hire, if you are hoping to experience sex. Relationships and marriage these days are a really bad idea for men and I hear India, in particular, is highly feminist. No surprise because the powers that be are really trying to slow population growth there and female empowerment is one of the most effective yet subtle ways of doing so [1][2][3][4]. This is because it can be sold to the public under the guise of 'gender equality' [5].

Ozzy_Cortes · 2020-11-03T18:14:32+00:00

There is no reason to be in a relationship when it's going to fail so yes, you can go MGTOW. I recommend all single guys out there to go MGTOW. Focus on yourself and live your best life! No Women needs to be involve in it.

KneeDeepThought · 2020-11-03T13:50:56+00:00

Yes, MGTOW isn't just for men who have had bad relationships or any relationships, it's about you doing the right thing for yourself regardless of your relationship status. In your case it would be completely understandable that you never want to put yourself in a situation where a woman can ruin your life by being in a committed relationship.

Correct me if I am wrong but my understanding is that it is far easier in India than in the west for women to make false allegations against men, and God help you if she decides to bring a "dowry case" against the husband and his family. When they have been given all the legal ammunition and never face consequences for hurting anyone, it's not surprising so many men are having their lives destroyed: power corrupts.

Only you can decide if MGTOW is "right" for you- but MGTOW is not being a monk, or playing with lots of women, it's simply you doing what is best for your future. The only real "rule" I have found is to not place yourself in a position where one lie can destroy you.

XGHOW · 2020-11-03T19:39:12+00:00

Of course. It’s your way, it’s your life. Live it brilliantly. Best of luck man

2020-11-03T21:03:38+00:00

If you have the need to ask permission to go your own way then you're not ready to be mgtow.

Mgtow means you stop giving a fuck about other people's opinions.

Mgtow means you live your life for your own sake and no one elses.

Most men are miserable bastards because society's pressure gets to them and they end up leading miserable lifes.

Don't be one them.

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-11-03T13:15:32+00:00

There's a Hindi MGTOW channel on YouTube - The Indian Bachelor. Perhaps he might be better suited to help you out, in terms of cultural context.

Personally, the only Indian MGTOW I know are all NRI only. And no wonder, with a divorce rate of 2% !!

Platinum247365 · 2020-11-03T18:42:53+00:00

I've 32, never been in a relationship, and I'm MGTOW. I've had it with dating and even flirty friendships.

DarthSchadenfreude · 2020-11-03T20:32:52+00:00

Can a person who's never played with matches and gasoline and suffered 3rd degree burns learn fire safety?

hottake_toothache · 2020-11-03T18:35:21+00:00

TheSilverShade · 2020-11-03T22:21:52+00:00

I don't see why not

stephenkodampuly666 · 2020-11-04T06:39:11+00:00

I'm 28 from India. Middle class, was an ex-liberal. I didn't have any girlfriends, has some good friends especially female. Was blue pilled till mid 2018. I was working abroad in a job that pays very well. When I came back for leave/vacation in 2016. I got many proposals especially for marriage from the girls I knew. They never showed an interest during our college days. I have dealt with a false accusation, so I knew about public opinion & lot of other things.

When I want to drain my balls, there are professionals out there who can do a very good job without nagging. Also I visit many countries, so it is easier for me. In India it's little difficult, not impossible.

So far you knew very little about MGTOW. That's why you asked that question.

Any man can become a MGTOW. MGTOW is a rational response to the gynocentric laws we have.

When I read & understood the laws in India related to marriage. I was like "I'm not going to sign on a deal with another person who will benefit from breaking it" That doesn't mean every woman is like that, but every woman has that OPTION.

I don't spend that much time with my family. If you want a MGTOW lifestyle it's better to move out from your parents home to your own place. Otherwise in most cases, a lot of family drama & they will force you to marry. I will move out from my home before 2023. I have a younger brother who is interested in getting married. And I have clearly stated this to my parents my intention to move out sooner. Also I'm don't have much sympathy or empathy. So I don't really give a f**k about what others say or does, and I have always admitted that I'm very selfish when it comes my happiness. I will never sacrifice my happiness for someone else's. That's my attitude or character. So it is very easy for me.

Two Rules of MGTOW lifestyle is - (1) No marriage (2) No cohabitation.

Poopdawg87 · 2020-11-03T13:58:54+00:00

Sure, any guy can be MGTOW. But it will be a lot harder for you, and I honestly don't think the MGTOW lifestyle is for everyone. I think you need a certain amount of stoicism and not caring about what others think if you to thrive as a MGTOW. If you are really close to your family, you being MGTOW can be a hard pill for them to swallow. Especially in a socially conservative country like India.

In addition, most men I have seen that avoid relationships when young tend to be the ones who get suckered in by the first pretty girl to start paying them attention. Nothing will make you see romantic relationships in a more realistic light than surviving a few of them, but casual dating isn't as common in India as the west.

2020-11-03T14:08:32+00:00

You can either listen to the words of others or go out in the dating scene and find out they were true. If suffering terrible relationships is what it takes for MGTOW to sink in, I fully understand. I'm 22 and have dated several types of women, all of whom seemed normal enough or smart in the beginning, then their manipulation, mind games, shit tests and control set it. I'm telling you, I knew what to look out for, but I just couldn't go MGTOW until I experienced the reality of women for myself.

ImlackingOriginality · 2020-11-03T15:08:10+00:00

Hi. If you agree for a lot of things it probably is beacuse mgtow is for you. And most importantly, dont let your country or culture make who you are. You can choose whatever you want to do.

Im also young like you, 17. I have never dated a girl in my life as well, but i have already chosen my own way.

If you are wondering how a relationship would be, my advice would be, if you have a relationship, not to take the relationship too seriously and not to be heartbroken after a break up/catching her cheat, since u told the infidelity is quite high.

As i said, dont let your country/culture influence yourself or your desires, youre free to do whatever you want. But you are the one who needs to decide if you want to GYOW.

citerunner · 2020-11-03T16:19:54+00:00

I think every guy should go mgtow for a bit. Find out what you're about what you want to do. So yeah you can go mgtow.

If you don't feel like getting into a relationship, don't get in one.

That is to core what every mgtow agrees on. All the rest is secondary to that.

lexsanders · 2020-11-03T22:09:07+00:00

I am similar to you and going my own way. So if you were looking for a greenlight, here it is. Don't force yourself based on others' life.

a_quiet_accountant · 2020-11-06T02:42:12+00:00

you should definitely go mgtow, especially considering you r from india, one of the most gynocentric countries I've seen. Men cannot afford to get married or have kids, it's just that simple.

bondcola007 · 2020-11-06T13:57:36+00:00

Of course you can. I'm in my early 20s as well, never had a relationship and happy I never got sucked into one.

Roachcluster · 2020-11-08T12:23:08+00:00

Sure. You don't need to do heroin to know that it's bad for you.

Smart men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from others mistakes as well.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-11-03T14:31:41+00:00

Idk, you tell me

Solo_and_Simple · 2020-11-03T14:56:19+00:00

You ask two questions: should you go MGTOW, and is it possible for someone who's never been in a relationship to go MGTOW. I can't answer the first, unless by MGTOW you just mean avoiding marriage, in which case yes, you should avoid marriage. If by MGTOW you mean more than that (and I do), then that's your call.

As for the second question (is it possible to go MGTOW if you've never had a relationship or sex with a woman?), I would say yes, hypothetically, but you're going to be building on a weak foundation, so it's not ideal.

People go MGTOW based on experience and knowledge. Those can come partially from other people, but unless you have some personal experience to ground it all, the decision is just an abstraction based entirely on what other people have said. Decisions like that tend to waver a lot when things come up (e.g., when you're enchanted by a pretty girl). You are "one blowjob away from the plantation," as they say.

It's much better to have your decision be grounded in personal experience. I don't mean you have to get roasted in divorce court before you can go MGTOW -- by all means, learn from other men's experience. But if you've never had sex or never had a real relationship with a woman, then it's going to be hard to make a solid commitment to going your own way. You'll be too tempted, have too much FOMO, too much unsatisfied curiosity, too much "what if..."

Besides, forgoing relationships and sex entirely is not a good life plan. I've had my share of relationships with women. Most of them were dysfunctional in one way or another, but I'm glad I had them. I'm not interested in having any more relationships with women now (I'm 59), but they helped me grow and learn, and I wouldn't wish any of them away, even the bad ones.

p.s. I've heard that India is one of the simpiest countries there is. I don't know that for sure myself, it's just something I've heard. If it's true, I'd urge you to get good education on How Not to Be a Simp. :)

KANOBOI · 2020-11-03T21:07:00+00:00

Nah relationships arent required but having a really good one and it taking a shit makes going mgtow easier. Plus atleast you got to experiance everything.

Title	Can a guy whose never been in a relationship go MGTOW?
Author	TheNormal_One_
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Date	November 3, 2020 11:29 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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