Rollo Tomassi made a interesting observation recently.

30203forever · 2020-10-02T20:27:32+00:00

He's correct. Those men do not truly understand the nature of women because if they did, the onlyfans would dry up quicker than a river in Sahara.

TigPlaze · 2020-10-01T20:48:42+00:00

Yes, very true. I would recommend the Youtube channel Ask An Escort. Turns out professional sex workers are more intimacy workers than sex workers. Some clients go to see her and don't even have sex with her and instead will just cuddle and maybe watch a movie. Many clients are married, but their wives aren't affectionate and they can't talk to their wives about everything such as what's bothering them. When a sex worker treats a man better than his wife does, there's something wrong.

Solo_and_Simple · 2020-10-01T20:18:27+00:00

That's my understanding, too -- that incels don't crave sex per se, but "intimacy," i.e., female validation, the GFE (or at least as they idealize it).

It's more like involuntarily lacking in female closeness/intimacy/validation, rather than involuntarily lacking sex in and of itself. Although to many incels, I think that is what sex, voluntarily bestowed upon them by a woman, means to them (female validation/"intimacy").

Morb357 · 2020-10-01T20:26:06+00:00

TFM famously said that if you have $200 in your pocket, you are not an incel.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-10-01T22:18:01+00:00

I say those simps should at least learn to haggle:

onlyfanowner: "Wanna see my nudes for 20 bucks?"

simp: "Hmm.. maybe.. can I see a sample?"

onlyfanowner: sends picture

simp: "Hmm.. how about 11 dollars?"

throw_me_away_133 · 2020-10-01T23:55:12+00:00

Nah. Men want BOTH, just like what you’d get in a normal relationship. I wouldn’t be satisfied if I was ONLY getting one of the two.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-10-01T22:22:42+00:00

I agree with his comments above, my issue is his livestreams are 3 hours f-ing long. Think he could trim it down a little.

retal1ator · 2020-10-01T22:42:39+00:00

The mere act of sex is just a very small part of sexuality.

There is also genuine desire, intimacy, reciprocal understanding, cuddles, back rubs, bed talks, love, playful fighting, sexiting, etc.....

Men paying for only fans are seeking some form of genuine special connection they dont think they can find anywhere else.

bdralph · 2020-10-02T05:05:33+00:00

These men want intimacy and to be desired as a potential partner with a woman, and thats why they are paying so much to cam girls etc. So the cam girl will give them attention and love while acting in ways a partner would.

Technically, Rollo, Richard Cooper and gang etc. are guilty of this too. Rather than pay for it up front, they tell men to get jacked, a V Taper, earn millions of dollars and (pretend to) not care about female attention. If a female gives you attention because she only now desires you... how is that not fake too? She's not loving you for who you really are, if she loves you at all. By the way, there are a handful of women in the world who actually truly love their men for who they really are (potbelly and everything). This is something Rollo, Richard Cooper etc. will likely never experience.

goatxoxoxo · 2020-10-02T16:07:03+00:00

I think he's confused about the definition of incel. Incel means someone who doesn't get laid. Period.

It doesn't matter if they want intimacy or the girlfriend experience. Stop trying to twist the definition to make yourself feel better about the situation or about yourself.

But it's true that the women on there try to provide the "girlfriend experience" by talking to camera as if the man in front of her is desirable. That's the idea behind the OnlyFans. The woman acting on camera make the man feel more desirable than the woman actually with the man (girlfriend) or else they just make the man feel desirable because the man doesn't have anyone. That doesn't make the latter category of men not an incel.

classicliberal1 · 2020-10-02T18:38:11+00:00

His basic idea is right, but it excludes guys under 12-22 and the homeless because neither have money.

The important point though is that men are throwing money at thots and OnlyFans for the delusion that they have a girlfriend who desires them. It's ego, and it's sad. They are being taken advantaged of, the quality of their lives diminished, and their potential unrealized.

There's something truly fucked up in our society if so many men are compelled to pay for this delusion.

sadbasturd99 · 2020-10-01T20:22:34+00:00

I didnt know you could have sex at a massage parlor, and backpages was shut down, so now I cant browse crackwhores posing as prostitutes which really wouldnt happen anyway because I am not putting myself in that type of danger to be in a hotel room with someone who is so fucked up beyond all repair that they will have sex with people for money. So yeah incel still is a thing.

Title	Rollo Tomassi made a interesting observation recently.
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Date	October 1, 2020 7:52 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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