Habits that help reduce my thoughts of women

DangZagnut · 2019-09-17T00:15:32+00:00

Why?

CalmElk · 2019-09-18T03:27:14+00:00

You need to unplug when you're younger. It's going to be hard but you have to find a hobby and ghost all the blue pilled simps. Avoid stories about relationships and men who chase women. It will be very painful to hear those stories because you will always feel like you missed out.

Some people might say you're missing out not dating more. I'm not sure that's the case for me. I dont always have options, there isnt necessarily a crapton of compatibility between me and most girls...why try? Sometimes I regret not doing stuff differently, but looking back at my life, at my temperment, at my ideas, what more could I have done?

Whenever I met a girl I truly liked, I went for it. I saw it through to the bitter end, trying to win their affection, and it ended in failure.

If anything upsets me about dating and relationships, it's that I never really had a chance with those who I actually did want to be with. And I'm upset about never meeting someone who I both liked and who I actually had a chance with. I admit, i don't try hard. I dont go out looking for love. I think trying to force it is a fool's errand and could stop me from finding someone who I truly do care about. A very real fear of mine is what if I settle for someone who is mediocre just for the sake of being with someone, and then am too tied up to pursue someone I actually love? I fear this more than being forever alone, hence me being single.

I also deeply regret ever getting into liking girls. I was much happier before I felt the urge to do so. Since my attempts have ended in failure....it hurts. It really hurts. Life has not be kind to me in terms of dating. Heck, considering the circumstances, that's actually a MASSIVE understatement. The epitome of my dating life is a huge cosmic joke.

Some people talk about getting ego boosts on here...but that's only if you're successful. If your dating life is a complete and utter failure like mine, you actually get the opposite effect. Keep that in mind. If you're successful, you can feel like you're walking on top of the clouds, but failure can make you feel like the worst emotional pains ever.

And even if you are successful, those chemical feelings supposedly wear off. And what about the tons of mistakes people have? You talk about older women having kids, but keep in mind, a lot of those single parents were actually dating successes in their 20s if you wanna come down to it. It's easy to get wrapped up in the so called kodak moments. It's easy to talk about the ego boosts and being on cloud nine and all. But between rejections and failed relationships and the like, dating does have a dark side. As I said, in my case, some pretty harsh rejections have actually caused me a lot of emotional pain.

I associate dating and relationships and those kinds of topics with pain and rejection and the like at this point. I miss being a young teenager without a care in the world in terms of relationships. My life was happiest then.

I wished I was in your position. If you are struggling with women I wished someone told me to just go MGTOW and set myself free. You have many years of your life that you can use to focus on your hobbies. There is not a someone for everyone. Romantic relationships are an unrealistic dream for me.

Patri_Arky · 2019-09-17T19:43:19+00:00

Meh.

Fap FTW, here.

CraigMcCloud · 2019-09-17T15:19:12+00:00

Habits that help reduce my thoughts of women

Easy peasy. The struggle can be settled once and for all just by changing a single concept :

How do you view sex? I know of 3 different ways of viewing sex.

The first one is what the media constantly pushes (we can almost call it forcing) on people. And that view is "sex is a recreational activity". Sex is like food that the body needs and the semen which is the key to create life is simply put at the same level of excrement. Many go through this, many don't but yearn to do it (incels) and very few reject this view. In the end, those who live with vision come back 20 years later and say "sex is overated".

The second one is what very few twisted individuals adhere to. "sex is a weapon to use for domination/destruction" aka rape. For me, women who fantasize about rape are individuals with very low self esteem. I would almost place them in the masochist category. Others would claim that it is a female natural desire. I try to leave that topic untouched 'cause who cares about women's irrationality.

And the third one is "sex is an ability to become indirectly immortal" meaning that you get to live beyond death through your children . Our ancestors had that view and that is a fact when you hear that 4/5 children used to be the norm. I know many would disagree with me on this but instead of seeing sex as a source of good feelings I'd rather see sex as a tool for creation (family). I'm aware that the circumstances are stacked against me and those who hold this view but I'm willing to stick to it to be closer to nature's logic. And even with the odds stacked against me to stop me from creating a stable family, most women refuse to have children because they want to travel the world and have 30 relationships in order to increase the odds of finding Mr right guy at the expense of their pair bonding ability. Therefore women advertise their bodies and image in order to get the best of what this materialistic society has to offer. Women these days are mentally infertile.

"Anon you'll won't get sex and won't get the dream/family you want with this view!"

Yep... It's that particular view that annihilates the struggle of not thinking about women. It's that particular view that allows me to see how things are fucking fucked big time. I entirely lose interest in women with this view.... In fact... I become able to see no women at all with this view

DonMelbourne · 2019-09-17T03:09:34+00:00

Why "(5) Don't eat red meat"?

vishnuts35 · 2019-09-17T02:54:39+00:00

nofap/semen retention +mgtow = heaven.

padraigmarcus · 2019-09-17T02:22:25+00:00

I agree with all of these except number 5. I don't get that one, but do it if it works for you. I try to limit my red meat for general health reasons.

cz_masterrace · 2019-09-17T00:48:04+00:00

Staying off the internet in general will guide your mind towards a more "normal" state of sexual thoughts and regulation. YouTube, Facebook, Reddit front pages...all can lead to "boredom masturbation" at just the site of a sexual ad or post.

n00bRECON_BR · 2019-09-28T02:22:10+00:00

Red meat is nice and increases your testosterone (it stills a very important hormone for men) i guess? But still, just focus on your hobbies and stay reading the bible.

Title	Habits that help reduce my thoughts of women
Author	throwawaygamer05
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Date	September 17, 2019 12:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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