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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Living as a Low Value MalePeople on MGTOW2 will put you down if you tell them you're a low value male. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | What’s your story?I have never been in a relationship. The only problem is when you see a happy couple and think you missed out but I have dodged many bullets and I don't plan on getting into a relationship. If you're introverted you should consider going monk. | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 4 | To the Women LurkingWhat is healthy fighting in a relationship? I think that woman thought you were abusive because she thought you were forcing your girlfriend to suppress her emotions and walk on eggshells when you said there were no arguments. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/06/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | About having hobbies and interest and a full lifeThis doesn't work if you are so retarded that your brain can't flirt. Someone told me this advice and I failed every time. You can be confident but it's not like that matters. It was a waste of time with no return. The only way to end my suffering was to give up and go my own way. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/20 09:01 AM |
| 6 | White roomHe asked how things were at home. I minimized the situation. I said it was a chaotic household but didn't mention abuse or neglect. I'm sure he saw through it. But I didn't realize the extent of the damage until I moved out. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 2 | what is your ideal mgtow monthly income ?How do you get bored of traveling? Everyone says traveling is fun and the only thing preventing them from doing it is lack of money. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/05/20 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Life Lessons - MGTOW EditionHow long will you live? How do you stay positive dealing with cancer and people trying to take advantage of you? | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/05/20 04:27 AM |
| 3 | The answers incels want to hear when they ask dating questions on MGTOWI think it's sad that so many men end their lives over being single. It hurts realizing no one every looked at you or saw you as an option but it's still not worth it. The world is a large place and there are many other things to focus on besides dating and relationships. You can save a lot of money going your own way and escape the rat race earlier. This is the only thing I look forward to. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/05/20 03:20 AM |
| 4 | The answers incels want to hear when they ask dating questions on MGTOWDon't argue with the guy who says incels are lazy. He didn't read this post and just started commenting because I already mentioned his advice is useless and he didn't even provide an argument. | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | 25 year old male, still waiting for life to beginNice | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/04/20 02:24 AM |
| 2 | My friend thinks getting married is better than going MGTOWThe problem is he keeps gaslighting me and telling me everyone else is in a healthy relationship and dating a unicorn. As you shift into a state of love, you'll start to see very clearly who is living out of a state of love and abundance and who is living in a state of fear. Fearful people don't necessarily hurt other people, but the only people who hurt people intentionally are fearful people. And whether a fearful person is going to hurt you or not, you can steer clear because that's not the v… | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/01/20 12:02 AM |
| 3 | My friend thinks getting married is better than going MGTOWThere are many women that pay their own way. And a responsible two earner household will gain financial independence far quicker. This is a very foolish point. Show me an example where two people achieve financial independence quicker. I think MGTOW is better for most men because they are able to manage their finances better. It's not realistic to expect men to get into a relationship with this goal. Same as above. Keeping up with the Jones’s is a choice. If that’s how you’re attracting women th… | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | I lost a friend to marriage because of exredpillExredpill makes it seem like you can find a unicorn and live happily ever after if you spit out the red pill. They assume all men on MGTOW have problems in their relationships because they are toxic men who attract toxic women. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/01/20 06:46 AM |
| 2 | I lost a friend to marriage because of exredpillWhy is your friend miserable? People on exredpill will blame him for not picking the right woman but it doesn't seem like he was expecting this. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/01/20 06:42 AM |
| 3 | I lost a friend to marriage because of exredpillHe thinks all the men on MGTOW are just toxic men who can only attract toxic women which prevents them from finding a healthy relationship with a healthy woman. Exredpill makes it seem like you can find a unicorn and live happily ever after if you spit out the red pill. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/01/20 06:39 AM |
| 2 | I lost a friend to marriage because of exredpillThe problem is exredpill encourages men to think nothing can go wrong as long as you spit out the red pill. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/01/20 06:37 AM |
| 5 | I lost a friend to marriage because of exredpillHe thinks it's a good thing she is a part time model because he can show her off to people and get other people's approval for having a hot girlfriend. A lot of people have been praising him and telling me I should change myself like my friend. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/01/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | The one that got awayAfter going MGTOW, I save a lot more money and don't have to worry about impressing anyone. Dating wasn't working for me and I was wasting time trying to figure out why did it have to be this way. Quitting dating was the only way to gain self respect and find happiness after taking the red pill. Why is this depressing? I am trying to look at the positive side after going through the red pill. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/11/19 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Why is there so much gatekeeping on MGTOW?This was posted in the comments But there's one small problem. I got all the respect in the world for guys who have actually done that. Guys at 40 or 50 who've already gone through one or possibly more failed relationships and just decided to call it a day, most of these guys have kids too. But if you're young and have never actually gone through any learning curve or don't have any actual relationship experience (yes, REAL relationships, not just some casual sex), then how can you ever expect t… | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/11/19 07:20 AM |
| 2 | I'm quitting Mgtow and deleting my reddit account (Please Read)At the root of MGTOW, in my opinion, is a feeling of disappointment, that so many of us were told that the world worked one way, and we found out that doesn't appear to be the case. There have been tons of stories on this group over its existence of guys having bad divorces, pointless time-wasting experiences over much or all of their dating, and much more. It's difficult to realize that a dream that one had is unrealistic, and to move on from that dream. But, I had to do that, because I basical… | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/10/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Why does society think romantic relationships are special?The problem is I missed out on the dating experiences that my peers had, which caused social isolation and extreme loneliness. I just want to go back in time and get the dating experiences with no strings attached that everyone else got to experience. It haunts me because the price for relationships increases every year and I feel like it is the main reason I will never feel normal or be accepted. I can fix everything else in my life except for relationships. If I was able to get at least one re… | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/09/19 06:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you fill the void you get, when you are in bed alone .Nothing in life is free. Even life itself carries a price. The struggle, the silent torture of enduring. You were always meant to die alone. We will all die alone. But society makes you think being in a relationship will save you from the pain of loneliness. That is why simps exist. Society forces you into this psychological trap to transfer your wealth to post-wall women. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/09/19 06:20 AM |
| 1 | I don't want to post a sob story but I'm sorryI understand your story and I have a similar story. The worst feeling is not being alone, it's being forgotten by someone you could not forget. "You will forever be the blood, that courses through my veins; and to you I'll be the chalk, scrawled on the sidewalk, forgotten when it rains" Back when I first fell for her, I had nothing. I sat next to her in econ class, watching as the econ grad student put down Lagrangians on the chalkboard, those multilayered, multi-paneled chalkboards that you cou… | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/09/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Tell me stories...Many years ago, back when I was still interested n dating, I was talking to a woman who was interested in getting to know each other, and we started talking on the phone. We were going to set up a meeting, and I mentioned I didn't have a car. Suddenly "click". And she never would answer the phone or communicate with me again. It was like she was insulted that a guy without a car would try to date her! So she had to insult that guy back by hanging up on him and never talking to him again! In real… | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/09/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | "The College experience"I have sometimes felt like I missed out on a lot of the fun of going to college. Not only did I not date in college, but I focused on studying. My entertainment was mostly cheap. I didn't have much money. I knew people in college who seemed to have a completely different experience. They took easy classes, and studying was more like something they fit into their extra time during the day. Instead, they dated, they regularly went places with friends, they had cars and drove all over town, they go… | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/09/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Habits that help reduce my thoughts of womenBeing a man is hard especially if you are not very high in SMV. Any girl who grows up automatically becomes a woman. Meanwhile, a boy does not automatically become a man, and instead is often required to prove himself, usually by passing stringent tests or producing more than he consumes. When I was a young person, I went through all kinds of bullying from others, and feeling embarrassed. At times, I felt like so many other people my age got to have fun, and I didn't -- I had to study and work h… | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/09/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Habits that help reduce my thoughts of womenYou need to unplug when you're younger. It's going to be hard but you have to find a hobby and ghost all the blue pilled simps. Avoid stories about relationships and men who chase women. It will be very painful to hear those stories because you will always feel like you missed out. Some people might say you're missing out not dating more. I'm not sure that's the case for me. I dont always have options, there isnt necessarily a crapton of compatibility between me and most girls...why try? Sometim… | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/09/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Women have acted like complete cunts toward to me my entire life. I always thought it was because of something I did or my looks but after taking the pill I've realized that I was never the problemWhy are you arguing with these people? You're wasting time with someone who will never understand your view. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/09/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How to not get oneitis?I've noticed this a lot and asked myself "Would I be attracted to this person if she didn't have her beauty and charm and was just an average man?" It takes a lot of effort to be rational because it goes against nature. Your body produces hormones to overwhelm you so that you mate and pass on your genes before you reach post nut clarity. Mother nature doesn't want you to be rational because there would be no way to pass on your genes if you realized how absurd it is to sacrifice everything and s… | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/09/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How to not get oneitis?Have you noticed how couples never talk about anything interesting? At least from what I've seen, when its just the two of them, its pretty pathetic. All they do is argue back and forth about stupid mundane shit. I've noticed this from watching most couples. The impression I get, is that basically men and women's brains are so different that the only thing they can consistently bond over is the mundane, transnational shit that they need to keep their lives running, like "did you feed the baby?" … | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/09/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | How to not get oneitis?Are you attracted to the girl or a fantasy of the girl? Most men are attracted to a fantasy of the person that is completely different from the actual person. If you get to know the actual person behind the looks you will realize that you have very little in common and lose all attraction. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/09/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | My parents are bitter that I'm not getting married and having kidsIf I tell them this they will get angry and call me ungrateful. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/08/19 01:50 AM |
| 1 | My parents are bitter that I'm not getting married and having kidsIt's more like they want me to be an alpha male for everyone else but a beta male to their friend's daughter. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/08/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | My parents are bitter that I'm not getting married and having kidsThey've been demanding marriage and kids no matter how much I improve myself. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/08/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | My parents are bitter that I'm not getting married and having kidsI am starting to think misery loves company. They want me to raise kids so that I suffer just as much. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/08/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | My parents are bitter that I'm not getting married and having kidsDid you pay for your own college? How did you deal with all the debt? Being a doctor is basically turning you into a beta bucks unless you actually want to be a doctor. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/08/19 01:45 AM |
| 1 | My parents are bitter that I'm not getting married and having kidsJust because you're in a relationship doesn't mean she loves you. It makes me wonder how many people settled in relationships just for money. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/08/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | I missed the golden age of dating and my youth.My friends spend a lot more money than I do which makes people think they are richer than me. They drive nice cars and live in a large house but I'm not sure if they can actually afford it or they're in debt. I'm always comparing myself to the perfect couple and assume most couples are perfect. I'm not being fair to myself by doing this but I am usually honest with myself which is why I assume others are also honest about their status. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/19 05:54 AM |
| 1 | I missed the golden age of dating and my youth.People tell me attracting girls is a fundamental need to build a strong self esteem. I'm trying to ignore these people but it's hard when most men tell me I need to get it out of my system and chase women. I always thought couples were supposed to be around the same age. I'm not expecting women to save me. I just wanted to be on the same level as my friends and not feel beneath them. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Midlife crisis and apathyMy mind has created a fantasy where they keep getting happier and it never ends. But I know they will hit the wall and get uglier. I just think that love starts at a young age and keeps on going until old age. They might fight a lot but they resolve their conflicts and their relationship gets stronger. The fantasy of what I missed out on happens when I spend time around blue pillers. It seems to go away after I spend a lot of time alone but every time I see a happy couple it comes right back. I … | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Midlife crisis and apathyI find that hard to believe but I don't want to cross the other side and realize it's too late to go back. The upward trajectory could mean that it peaks at marriage and only gets worse. They're all marrying attractive women and talking about having attractive and smart children, traveling the world and doing lots of fun things. They sound like my parents when they were younger but my parents don't have a happy ending. They seem to be in an unhappy marriage but I'm not sure if that is just bad l… | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Why my heart is brokenI've never been in a relationship and sometimes want to trade places with people who have lots of experience. I have never been good with women and a lot of people on here think I'm really lucky but I'm always wondering if the grass on the other side is greener. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/19 03:21 AM |
| 1 | I missed the golden age of dating and my youth.I lost friends because they started to lose hope in me and felt that something was really wrong with me if I was still single. They kept telling me I didn't get it. I tried my hardest to improve myself but it was never enough. During the first few months of college, my friends could easily attract women while I was still learning and they all hooked up relatively quickly and landed in long term relationships. My friends felt like they were wasting their time with someone like me. Her means any f… | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/08/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Midlife crisis and apathyWhy doesn't it feel like I dodged a bullet? My friends life is on an upward trajectory and it seems everything is going smoothly. All the life goals are being checked off and everything seems to be closing in on the happy ending. I would think getting divorced is the last thing on their mind. | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/08/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Midlife crisis and apathyHow would you know? | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/08/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Can you guys do me a favor?Girl breaks up with poor boyfriend. Turns out hes loaded. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/08/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | People say I would be happier if I took their adviceI think most people see MGTOW as giving up and coping instead of chasing a goal. When they criticize MGTOW, their biggest complaint is that MGTOW spend too much time talking about women and blaming others. It bothers me because they want me to play a rigged game and make it look like I'm wrong for not playing. They try to convince me my goals don't matter because anyone can accomplish big goals and save a lot of money but finding true love is much harder and worthwhile. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/08/19 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you make your life interesting?Why are you chasing a hot dog? What happened when you went to NYC? I want to hear more about your trip. I always thought vacations had to have a grand purpose like visit all the tourist attractions and take as many photos to post on social media. I also thought vacations had to be expensive but I don't want to waste money if I can avoid it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think MGTOW is the easy way out? They tell me I need to get out of my comfort zone by approaching new woman every day.People want me to keep playing the dating game because they think I'm missing out on a fundamental experience of happiness by giving up too quickly. It's like telling someone that quitting the gym is taking the easy way out because they could get stronger if they kept working out. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/08/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think MGTOW is the easy way out? They tell me I need to get out of my comfort zone by approaching new woman every day.My friends in relationships tell me women are different but they tell me they can be more intimate with them than with me simply because they feel more comfortable around a woman and think she understands him better than me. I don't know why they would rather share their secrets and weaknesses with their girlfriend but it's because they believe in pair bounding and woman are more loyal and caring. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/08/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think MGTOW is the easy way out? They tell me I need to get out of my comfort zone by approaching new woman every day.People think that meeting new women allows you to meet more interesting people who add value to my life. They're telling me I'm just afraid of rejection and ask me how can I live an exciting life if I'm always afraid to leave my comfort zone? The problem is these people are everywhere online and in real life. Even on Reddit, most people are constantly telling me that meeting more women will solve most of my problems with fear of rejection and make me feel more fulfilled so there is nowhere to go… | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/08/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think MGTOW is the easy way out? They tell me I need to get out of my comfort zone by approaching new woman every day.People want me to keep playing the dating game because they think I'm missing out on a fundamental experience of happiness by giving up too quickly. It's like telling someone that quitting the gym is taking the easy way out because they could get stronger if they kept working out. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/08/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome the desire for pleasure?When I see a happy couple in public, I assume they are also happy when they are alone and no one is watching. In the moment, I'm not going to be thinking the happy couple is actually only happy in public because this would require me to admit that being the guy in the happy couple isn't going to help me escape the pain. It seems that everyone I know keeps telling me how happy their relationship is and anyone who is unhappy is simply just a bad boyfriend or they picked the wrong girl. I keep blam… | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/08/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who has never dated or took part in romance?I hope it works out but people on MGTOW are going to downvote and say AWALT. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/07/19 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who has never dated or took part in romance?How did you get back into relationships? Why did you still choose to get married even after reading MGTOW? I feel like I can't do it after reading the stories of divorced men on MGTOW. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/07/19 05:41 AM |
| 1 | China outperforming Japan in campus romanceMost Japanese men are MGTOW but Chinese men will understand once they realize why. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/07/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Anyone know multiple languages?I saw this guy and thought he was very good. I'm not sure if he is MGTOW but I can't imagine him reaching that level if he spent all his time chasing women. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/07/19 04:21 AM |
| 1 | You can't negotiate attractionHow can you negotiate attraction if the other person only sees you as a beta bucks? There is a limit to how much you can improve yourself. I tried my hardest to be attractive but I don't see the point if the other person is always moving on to other men. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/06/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | You can't negotiate attractionHow can you negotiate attraction if the other person only sees you as a beta bucks? There is a limit to how much you can improve yourself. I tried my hardest to be attracted but I don't see the point if the other person is always moving on to other men. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/06/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | De-pedastalizing your parentsI realized that just because someone is your family doesn't mean they have your best interests at heart. I wasted a lot of time trying to please my parents and society and lost a lot of time that I will never get back. If I hadn't had such a dysfunctional relationship at home I wouldn't have spent so much time trying to find unconditional love from a unicorn and I would have gone MGTOW earlier. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/06/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | I feel trapped in a blue pill worldWhat if you get caught lying? | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/05/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | I feel trapped in a blue pill worldHow do you know if someone is actually in a happy relationship? | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/05/19 05:38 AM |
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