I have unattractive face. What shall I do besides lifting?

Icanus · 2017-01-23T11:10:42+00:00

I've seen the ugliest bastards with superhot chicks.
It's not your face. Be more interesting and rich.
Keep up the good work and good luck.

SkorchZang · 2017-01-23T09:30:30+00:00

Sure they're checking out your face & baldness too of course, but only in passing.

It's not the same with women, they are not the same as us. You look at a chick with an ugly face & body, and it's probably game over for her, there's pretty much nothing she can offer besides extra-easy sex that would make you interested in her.

But women looking at you are not really looking for a pretty face or a sixpack. They are looking for a Man. They're involuntarily excited about overall signs of manliness, power, dominance, unstoppability and being in control. This is why money on a man is like makeup on a woman, very powerful draw. This is a crucial bit of red pill knowledge that launches your Game somewhere completely new. They don't really give that much of a shit about your face, they are mainly affected by how you make HER feel with your manly presence/action.

Some things you want to make girls feel that are never explained to blue pillers:

uncomfy
excited and shy
a little bit scared ("is he gonna rape me")
involuntarily submissive ("omg he talks to me just like daddy did")
full of delicious impatience ("when is he gonna call?")

super_hater · 2017-01-23T09:33:08+00:00

What shall I do besides lifting?

hone your game and keep trying
lower your standards
keep improving in your career
make more friends/expand social circle

What shall I do for facial attractiveness?

Nothing. Your face is what you are stuck with. The only other option is plastic surgery.

The__Tren__Train · 2017-01-23T08:18:09+00:00

but have you tried not being indian?

2435734098 · 2017-01-23T14:28:31+00:00

Keep lifting and dieting, when you lose bf to the point your abs show, your face aesthetics improve too.

Shave your head completely, accept your baldness and own it.

I'd grow a beard, it depends on your genetics but unless your beard is completely patchy and fucked up you're generally going to look better.

Some things like genetics are out of your control, stop trying to change them and accept who you are. Somewhere out there, a guy who is uglier than you and fatter than you is banging a hot chick and she's loving it. Life is not a fashion show

DoubleT06 · 2017-01-23T10:10:32+00:00

/r/amiugly might be able to give some tips

Sunshine12e · 2017-01-23T11:50:45+00:00

First of all, not sure what ethnicity of women you are going for, but I have noticed that quite often men of Indian descent think that they are less physically attractive than they actually are AND apologize for their "darkness", which no one who is not Indian actually gives a damn about. So, you may be giving off a vibe of unattractiveness, rather than being unattractive. 2nd, and MOST importantly, the fact that you are being shut down may have ZERO to do with facial unattractiveness and EVERYTHING to do with your approach and cultural differences. As someone who has gone on many dates with Indian men, and had a long-term relationship with a guy from India, I can tell you that many times I would be left confused by the man's actions. There is a tendency to try and get too physical and move too quickly (like the guy on a coffee date who then awkwardly tried to give me a hug as I got into my car.....and then wouldn't let go, and then blocked and wouldn't let me close my car door. What started as a great first meeting, instead left me feeling a bit scared and shaken). I also find that a lot of Indian men treat a date like a cross between an arranged marriage meeting and picking up an escort. Many times they only want to discuss how much money I am making and then ask some oddball sexual question like "Did you ever have a 3-some". Sometimes they try to outright demand things like cooking "Can you cook Indian food?" on a first NOT-QUITE-A-DATE. There is no charm, no making the woman comfortable, no light flirting, NO READING BODY LANGUAGE AND RESPONDING IN KIND/ESCALATING. The guy that I had a long-term relationship with was not as socially-clueless, however there were still too many cultural differences in the end.

JackGetsIt · 2017-01-23T14:01:28+00:00

Improve game and status. Continue to lift. It's that simple. Maintain and reduce aging with r / skincareaddiction.

hamstercide · 2017-01-23T14:41:59+00:00

You sound like you're focused a lot on BF%... Are you already pretty big and muscular looking? Because no one gives a shit about abs on a skinny guy.

You're Indian, but where are you approaching? In India? The US? Europe?

UziNidalee · 2017-01-23T15:50:01+00:00

Great style and fashion sense helps too, dress smart and presentable

shadyindividual · 2017-01-23T15:50:36+00:00

Wear some makeup. A little base and some mascara goes a long way

mbillion · 2017-01-23T16:16:22+00:00

Buy hats

thetotalpackage7 · 2017-01-23T16:32:25+00:00

Do you have any remnants of an Indian accent? If so get rid of it totally. Pretty sure it is pussy repellent to white chicks.

Avskygod0 · 2017-01-23T16:40:04+00:00

post face

also indian accent for some reason is basically repellent everywhere due to bad reputation basically wherever you are (in anglo countries because muh indian weirdo stereotype, everywhere else cuz gypsies)

cocobong0 · 2017-01-23T17:06:32+00:00

You might want to consider wearing a glass. A frame that fits to you will make your face look more symmetrical. That's why some girls are hotter when they wear glasses and they look 'different' after they remove them.

sunkindonut149 · 2017-01-23T22:33:31+00:00

Get into skincare - I'm serious. My face is also unattractive and I've been able to edge up a few points by moisturizing every day and using Retin A. Retin A also evened out my skin tone.

vorverk · 2017-01-23T11:57:43+00:00

My abs have started to show up a little.

That means you have 20% body fat. Not 12. You are fat. Go on a serious cut and face will be better looking and not so important...

harvnsty · 2017-01-23T17:18:33+00:00

Facial attractiveness is less important than you may think. How tall are you?

FrameWalker · 2017-01-23T17:42:14+00:00

Play sports. Develop morer masculinity. Get your lifts up and body mass up. At 5 10 12% bf weigh 180 to 190 or so

Title	I have unattractive face. What shall I do besides lifting?
Author	bhjdfs
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Date	January 23, 2017 8:05 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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