Love

MarqNiffler · 2019-03-05T18:36:07+00:00

Kindness and love are not currencies.

I am kind to people because of who I am, not because of who they are.

Nothing about MGTOW means you have to be a dickhead.

Emervila · 2019-03-06T00:53:57+00:00

you're right, we're not becoming fags or something like that, we are going our own way to be the best version of ourselves we can be which involves being humanitarian and have real value for life even for women BUT not at the plantation or under their conditions.

I don't think someone can be really happy without love and I don't believe love is referred just a couple-sex oriented relationships. I love my family and I can be decently kind with other people just not a beta chump or another worker in the plantation orbiting.

SuspectedLumber · 2019-03-11T04:11:47+00:00

After having taken the red pill, I like my boss, who's pretty much an idiot, but she's kind, she has genuine kindness. This is to say, it's dumb to unconditionally hate all women 100%. I'm not even sure I'm offering anything to the original question in the post.

jabbercockey · 2019-03-09T05:57:19+00:00

If you are talking about agape over eros I think you will be fine.

It's a positive thing to base your life on and part of the western tradition.

TheLastLegend21 · 2019-03-06T07:42:09+00:00

The problem with Love i found out it is not an emotion People have this jaded fantasy of love. You get butterflies and you are infatuated with that person forever. Love is an action, you can’t feel love for someone you can only show them you love them. Saying I love you is not love. Putting yourself before another is love. Women go by emotion. “i think i love you” Ultimate red flag. So is love real... short answer yes, but it’s not in the way we think it is.

yourmomhasebolaids · 2019-03-06T03:14:20+00:00

Love makes you vulnerable. People are inherintly selfish and so if you choose to love someone you should do it without expectations. Protect yourself from being taken advantage of because if you open yourself up people can and eventually will take advantage of it. That being said, I think it takes a lot of strength and compassion to truly love someone even after being hurt and knowing the nature of human selfishness.

DangZagnut · 2019-03-05T18:38:26+00:00

If it works for you , do it, there's no reason not to.

Be nice to people you associate with, just don't get emotionally invested.

Avoid that, and you'll be fine.

Lazzorbeam · 2019-03-05T19:58:14+00:00

I used to think there is no real kindness in this world. Just quit-pro-quo diguised as love for others. Well, planes didnt exist in this world until we created them.

troubledmuggles · 2019-03-05T19:22:06+00:00

My views are fairly jaded on love and empathy.

Love is a term people use on one another to get each other to stick around a bit longer, that is, once the dopamine levels associated with initial feelings of love wear off. I recently read that men actually produce higher levels of dopamine (proportionally) than women do.

Empathy... hmmmm. I have a lot of empathy for other dudes, especially those that have been disadvantaged by height or personality due to their psychological background. They have it really tough when it comes to relationships in general. I have less empathy for women though these days, most of them have certain advantages due to double standards.

I have a ton of empathy though for women that get abused though... like those that are trafficked and what not. I'm talking about in general population terms though.

Everything is relative though. When things get desperate (like if SHTF), love and empathy are gone in an instant, and it's every man for themselves.

KhajiitFL · 2019-03-05T18:38:50+00:00

There's a slight natural capacity for empathy, however, empathy is primarily a learned trait.

Title	Love
Author	Thotsithinknots
Upvotes	4
Comments	18
Date	March 5, 2019 6:31 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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