This one woman and I had plans scheduled for this week and the day of she asks if she could invite a friend.

(For context, I’ve hung out with this woman twice, the second time we didn’t get much time to really chat as we were doing an activity class together. And I don’t text much unless it’s to schedule plans because I’d rather talk in person and build a relationship that way. And her small talk via texts doesn’t interest me although I do note her attempt at trying to maintain contact in that form)

I replied that if she had plans that’s cool (because I’m not really interested in attending the plans we had scheduled anymore after this recent event of trying to invite someone to join)

She said that she doesn’t, her friend was just curious about the activity I suggested we do this week. AND SHE PROCEEDED to say that she thinks me and the friend would really hit it off.

And I’m here like…. There’s no way she would know that because she doesn’t know me. And this woman gives me vibes that she’s not someone I’m compatible with. Just because I can get along well with others doesn’t mean a bond is going to be forged.

Anyway my gut is telling me that I should just drop her and move on. After breaking up with my ex last month. I’m focusing really hard on being mindful of who I surround myself with. And listening to what I want instead of trying to appease others by dismissing my needs.

I also don’t know how to kindly bail out of these plans :/