My spouse was difficult to deal with in the past. She didn't realize she needed medication that helps her behavior. She has that medication now and is realizing how difficult it was for me (us) in the past. I've changed how I feel about her now but I'm feeling like a jerk. All those years of conflict and not getting what I needed have taken it's toll. Anyone else have a similar scenario? Am I a jerk for still wanting to separate even though she is now on medication?