Out in the field for a few months and I was able to observe lots of interactions between men and women.

Unsurprisingly the most successful males, when it comes to pick up girls are the ones that don't reflect about why they failed or could fail. I'm sure some of those dudes just learned how to control themselves and their thoughts, but it's obvious that most of them aren't even capable of reflecting their behaviour and themselves in a bigger context.

I don't want to judge those fellas. I want to copy what's making them successful. Therefore the most promising way to become more alpha is imo to get a Lobotomy and rob myself the ability to a) doubt myself and b) reflect about what ffs I'm doing.

Is this solution viable or does anyone have a more appropriate idea?

To catch the standard answers: I (seriously) lift for about 14 months now, I read most of TRPs recommended books and I fixed most of my grooming.