Thoughts.

TinyYak3 · 2021-01-31T09:30:27+00:00

It gets better man. Hang in there. Also, please talk to someone about your thoughts of suicide at the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255

MyNewNormal808 · 2021-01-31T10:24:55+00:00

You need to talk to someone. During my “dark days” I thought about if life was worth living. I was lucky that I called the VA crisis line and just talking to someone helped. I was also able to get counseling at the VA. It really does help. One thing I realize going through the divorce is that once the woman says she wants a divorce, she’s made up her mind and probably won’t change. Once I got that, I stopped trying to reconcile and put my attention on getting myself in order; mentally, physically, financially, and emotionally. I started to think about the future and how to live a better life and move forward. I’m happy to report that it worked. I’m a better person than I was when married. While I have my issues (Still trying to figure out OLD) I no longer think about my old married life. You just got to hold on to hope for the future. Never give up. Good luck and hang in there.

macscheid · 2021-01-31T15:08:05+00:00

7 month seperated here. Time helps. Hang in there. There is hope for you. Amazing relationships await you yet.

WartimeDad · 2021-01-31T23:33:19+00:00

I would not suggest calling the hotline. Post here. Dm me if you’d like. Know that it will get better. Don’t give up. No matter what don’t give up. Do push ups until you cant anymore. Run until you can’t anymore. When you exercise some positive vibrations leave your muscles and go into your brain. It’s no cure but it does take the edge off. There are others out there that won’t give up on a marriage like your ex did. There are others out there that will love you.

RepresentativeOk5968 · 2021-02-01T12:05:05+00:00

Don't do it man. I won't give you platitudes but just know there are others out there in pain just like you. Take it from one of them, you aren't alone. Take this anonymous redditor's encouragement and I hope it helps in some small way.

Title	Thoughts.
Author	without-worries
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	January 31, 2021 7:32 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/l97fhj/thoughts/
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