Hello. My wife of 4 years has been telling me for the past 6 months that the Lord is telling her to be with another man. My thought process is that of you're unhappy then just leave and we can arrange something for our two kids(3 and 9months). I feel like I'm getting used as a meal ticket and she wants me to be the one to say it so she can use it against me with the kids. I actually haven't even considered divorce until recently. Her family dotes on my fathering and they openly argued with her about her decisions like sitting on her phone all day and doing nothing with the kids and yelling at them if they aren't just perfect all the time. My family literally hates her but puts up with her for the babies' sake. I'm at a loss and I know a big change is coming soon. Mind you, I'm a local truck driver so I'm home every day and the guy she wants to be with works at a steakhouse....