Posted this in r/breakups and r/divorce

I don’t see many people here posting about break ups when you have children together. Obviously NC is harder with kids, so is it very successful if you have to have contact and keep it strictly about the kids? Id like to hear others stories , its hard because im sure a lot of people abandon this sub if they get back together, is there a sub out there i cant find? Also im curious about the split, who left the home, did you initially find a permanent place to live or stay with someone for awhile to ride out the storm and see what happens. Im a bit confused now , wondering if having a child can make us try harder to fix our issues and be a better family or is one and done quite common?

Thanks