Hope you all don’t mind. Just need a quick outlet to vent that won’t put me in legal trouble. I’m the middle of a divorce, no kids, and already 30k in the hole already. STBEX drained our joint savings where I put my VA disability check each month and fired a false order of protection that barred me from a brand new home. I can’t even go back to get anything and her Family picked it clean. They rallied to her and I suddenly found myself with no one. Never realized I had sacrificed a lot of friendships to be with her. She has her support system like always and I was in new territory. Found a place to rent but I’m still paying the mortgage on the new house she is living in on top of the rental property etc. Money is getting tight and I’m 5 months into this. She is stalling and her lawyer asked mine if it’s feasible to let her live it for another 6 months because she is having a tough time. Wtf...how did you guys cope that have been through similar things?