My LTR of about 2 years and I met when I wasn't as fit as I am today. I started Stronglifts about 1 year ago and built my own gym in my house. Now I am much leaner and more muscular.

She touches my biceps and chest randomly and says she likes it, but yesterday she was crying at a restaurant we went to for dinner saying she actually doesn't care and doesn't like that I am now getting a treadmill too. The argument started when I told her I was getting a treadmill. She says she doesn't want a gym bro and that if she knew I would be like this she wouldn't of dated me in the first place. I'm tell her I'm not a gym bro I lift at my house... she says yeah but in the future you may become one if you dont still live here. So I was like yeah if I dont have a gym I guess I'll have to go to a gym so? She was like I KNEW IT!

I only work out 3 times a week how is this an issue?

She said that she doesn't care if I get bigger she liked my body when we met, however, her celebrity guy-crush-thing she talks about is this south korean guy from running man that is way stronger than everyone else. She brings up how he was able to subdue 3 guys at once cuz hes so strong. I told her that he is strong because he works out, but now shes coming at me like its a bad thing im working out... She said she was only touching me because she thought since that is what I was doing (working out) she should "play along". It's like shes been faking it this whole time.

I told her I dont do it for her I do it for me if she has a problem with it just break up with me. The nonsense argument pretty much ended there but the truth is I DO like that she was touching me and thought she was liking the new me... kind of makes me sad to think that it was all a show.

I don't even know what the question here should be... but any response I guess would be good to hear, good or bad just be honest.