My boyfriend is so feminine…

hsjakandh · 2021-08-07T04:36:30+00:00

Put stuff up in him🤨

softrevolution_ · 2021-08-07T04:40:43+00:00

You aren't going to change him sexually, if that's what you want help doing. Is he otherwise an ordinary man socially and in his personality?

And please for the love of God be careful what you, um... put there. You don't want to be a story passed 'round the ER at the end of the year, when they take out the box of stuff they've pried out of people's rear ends and have a good laugh.

Nandemodekiru · 2021-08-07T05:59:22+00:00

Can’t tell if troll or not 🤨 Post history is suss

aehei · 2021-08-07T04:51:21+00:00

I think there's more to masculinity and femininity than what goes erm... where. Is this really about his masculinity as a while or just how he is in the bedroom?

I think if men feel like all their needs are being met, they tend to become more of a giver - allowing you to be a receiver and enjoy what he can provide emotionally and sexually. Winning and being desired can boost his testosterone that can also make men feel like conquering more in the bedroom.

Perhaps he has some insecurities or inferiority issues that he isn't addressing? Otherwise, perhaps ask to check his testosterone and estrogen levels? High prolactin might also be present if his T levels are good, and this can be an indicator of high stress, meaning his need to relieve that stress is going unmet.

Hope that helps!

JadedByEntropy · 2021-08-07T05:00:20+00:00

he lets me

Full Stop. Your problem is with you doing something that makes you uncomfortable. Dont do anything that makes you hate your own behavior and therefore him because he lets you get away with it.

Jenneapolis · 2021-08-07T05:34:33+00:00

Honestly you don’t say anything in this post about the relationship or anything about him other than comment on the sex. You don’t say if he’s feminine in other ways and if that turns you off, or how you feel about the situation. I don’t consider what you are doing to him sexually as feminine and I don’t think that’s the issue here. Come to terms with what you want.

OursIs-TheFury · 2021-08-07T07:41:45+00:00

Not his fault God put the male G spot in the prostate

_johnfketamine · 2021-08-07T11:50:49+00:00

Troll

Inside_Ad_7292 · 2021-08-07T04:55:39+00:00

It sounds like you might just be sexually incompatible. Men wanting women to sexually stimulate them in that area doesn’t make them inherently not masculine. I will also add that you shouldn’t do anything you’re uncomfortable doing just because he wants to do it. Be open and honest with him.

Title	My boyfriend is so feminine…
Author	ec0friend
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	August 7, 2021 4:32 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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