Got kicked out of party for hooking up with new chick in front of old plate...

walawalawa · 2017-02-28T00:28:11+00:00

Dumbass, you had to know she was going to get jealous.

1: Why the fuck did you go to Old Plate's party if you had no plan of hooking up with her?? Did you really have nothing better to do?

2: Punch yourself in the dick for not at least trying to pull a threesome.

3: Punch yourself in the dick again for losing frame and bitching at Old Plate. Remember, you're not supposed to give a fuck.

4: Punch yourself in the dick a third time for not fucking the 9 yet.

5: Good job having the balls for bringing an HB 9 to an old plate's house and making out with her while playing pong in front of everybody. That's some pimp ass shit lol.

6: Never fight the fat bitch

7: Only faggots lose their temper and kick trash cans, you should have left with the 9 and plowed before things escalated to that level. Make introductions -> drink free booze -> crush a pong game or two if u have the time -> change venue -> plow the 9

8: Ghost all them bitches and proceed as usual. If the 9 still comes around after some ghosting then plow, but don't pursue

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-02-28T00:47:57+00:00

I should mention that this old plate is fucking down right obsessed and hits me up every other day trying to get me to come over and I never hit her back up

Ok so this is already on a trajectory to go well...

Old plate sees this and catches me outside later while I'm having a cig and is very irrate.

So crazy obsessed girl acts crazy and obsessed...naw, no way you could have seen that coming....

Here is where I definitely fucked up.

Oh, no, no. You fucked up about four moves ago.

I was gonna grab New Girl and bring her back to my house...

This was the play.

...but upon seeing this bitch who I never considered anything more than a plate yell at this bombshell I'm trying to fuck I get completely livid..

So tell us all about your frame again....

I realize I epically failed at an important rule of always holding frame.

Yes, well, "Good judgment comes from experience which comes from bad judgment."

-From "The Sayings of Chairman Zaitzev"

I proceed to make a scene and knock over empty bottles and kick a trash can over

Why?

My question is what can I do to handle a situation like this better in the future?

Basically the only reason to bring new girl over to old plate's house is if you could have worked a 3some out of it. Otherwise, what possible good was going to come from this?

Do you guys think this made me more attractive or undesirable in the eyes of New Girl? What should I do next?

That second one, but seems recoverable. Your next move is to proceed as normal. If it comes up, you "had a bad night".

walawalawa · 2017-02-28T01:10:27+00:00

Reading this, it sounds to me like a passive-aggressive attempt to start a jealousy plotline with "Old Plate".

Be smarter at this stuff...discretion is the key to valour. If she sees you out that's one thing...going to her place when you're still in touch and she's still chasing you...and trying to bang another girl---that's not Red Pill...it's instigating drama.

A club, a party, a restaurant...any neutral location is one thing.

Girls pull this shit to shit-test guys. Her reaction was exactly what you were hoping for...come on.

[deleted] · 2017-02-28T01:16:50+00:00

Rentally metarded

RunawayGrain · 2017-02-28T00:18:57+00:00

The first mistake you made was not ghosting Old Plate as soon as you two were done. Let's be honest: Old Plate sounds like drama, and you walked right into this.

Saturday comes and an old plate I used to fuck last semester invites me over to her house for a party she's having. I'm not doing anything else so I decide to head over. (I should mention that this old plate is fucking down right obsessed and hits me up every other day trying to get me to come over and I never hit her back up).

You should have not gone over there then. Kinda smells like maybe you were trying to flash the blonde in front of Old Plate maybe? Just saying, that's how Old Plate is going to spin the whole event, anyway.

New girl finally gets to the party and we're hangin out having a great time so I decide to escalate and grab her by the waist and make out with her while we're at the pong table. Old plate sees this and catches me outside later while I'm having a cig and is very irrate. She tells me that I am being disrespectful by inviting a girl over to her house and hooking up with her... yada yada. I tell Old Plate that I dont give a fuck about my disrespect and she needs to back the fuck off because we no longer hang out and when we did she was strictly someone I used for sex.

Shoulda left then. Better yet, you shouldn't have gone over there in the first place. Everything after you went over there is damage control.

Well old plate decides to go up to New Girl and starts talking shit. Here is where I definitely fucked up. I was gonna grab New Girl and bring her back to my house but upon seeing this bitch who I never considered anything more than a plate yell at this bombshell I'm trying to fuck I get completely livid.. I shove old girl away from new girl and basically tell her she's an insane bunny boiling cunt.

Proper response was "I'm not hanging around where I'm not wanted" grab the blonde bimbo and head over to your place. No screaming, no smashing shit, just calmly leave with a condescending smirk. As it stands, Old Plate can claim you got violent or some shit now.

Anyway I get home and New girl texts me asking if I'm okay, what happened etc. to which I calmly reply that she shouldnt let it ruin her night and to get home safe tell her I'll text her later.

You left her there? No telling what the old plate was filling her head full of.

Do you guys think this made me more attractive or undesirable in the eyes of New Girl?

Depends. Girls hate desperation, and if Old Plate came off as desperate then Blonde might infer that you have value, hence why this girl is so obsessed. What would have sealed the deal would have been not having the emotional outburst and playing it cool.

Also, be aware that if Blonde hangs around and you run into Old Plate with her, Old Plate is going to get more obsessed as an HB9 hanging around signals value.

desno · 2017-02-28T02:30:49+00:00

Shouldn't have invited the new girl over. Two better options were, leave now and hit new girl up or stay and tell her you're busy.

Tbh you handled it ok in the end. It may work in your favour with the new girl even. Bitches love drama.

MrTyler_Durden · 2017-02-28T03:19:11+00:00

Live and learn bro. It's not a mistake if you you learn from it. Now you know what to do for next time grab new girl and take her home like you said before any of it blew up.

Also, I don't think chances to fuck new girl are ruined. Ask her over to your place.

Be stoic everywhere you go.

AtlasAnt · 2017-02-28T01:22:29+00:00

She caught you outside, how bow dah

Questionnaire7 · 2017-02-28T04:54:32+00:00

Im guessing alcohol was involved on your part? Right action would be to grab new girl and go back to your place.

Remember you are an unmovable mountain. You cant let this stuff externally effect you. Also may not have been a bad idea to have let old girl down a little more easy. Openly telling her you only used her for sex may have been a bad idea. Also crossing the beams by inviting new girl over may have been a bad idea.

MentORPHEUS · 2017-02-28T05:52:19+00:00

I tell Old Plate that I dont give a fuck about my disrespect and she needs to back the fuck off because we no longer hang out and when we did she was strictly someone I used for sex.

...and still hung out at the party at her house like it was cool, at least long enough for the next part to happen?

This story strains my rational suspension of disbelief.

BluntMFer · 2017-02-28T06:23:59+00:00

What did you expect lol dumbass

Title	Got kicked out of party for hooking up with new chick in front of old plate...
Author	TheMightyMellow
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Date	February 27, 2017 11:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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