Pt 3 of a girl being pregnant with a kid who says she’s mine . She’s going crazy after me saying I don’t wanna be with her and this is her response . I will link my other post in the comments .

SandorYarpClegane · 2021-02-12T23:47:27+00:00

Block her everywhere you can and go on with your life until you get papers.

womblefish · 2021-02-13T01:51:04+00:00

I don't think you mentioned before that she already had 3 kids. No wonder she's lost the plot, she thought you were going to be her meal ticket for life.

It's not a major surprise that she's pulling out all the stops, manipulation, lying about a baby etc, to try and get you to stay.

Seriously, she sounds toxic. I'm gonna guess she's come up with no evidence of her 'pregnancy'. You should cut off all contact with her, don't reply, she's just gonna mess with your head and make you feel bad.

She also sounds like she's winding up for the old 'Im going to kill myself if you leave' bs. If you continue communicating with her she'll get there soon. If she does, remember that threatening self harm is grade A psychological abuse.

But as others have said, just give her a final ultimatum of proof of her pregnancy being real. And then cut off all communication. Blocking her doesn't make you a bad person, protecting yourself from psychological abuse makes you a smart person.

darthmadeus · 2021-02-12T23:41:05+00:00

Never put your dick in crazy. And if you do, WEAR A CONDOM

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-02-12T23:54:00+00:00

Dont believe its all an act to manipulate you.

battle_opponent · 2021-02-13T16:53:56+00:00

"I DID EVERYTHING!!!!"

-some crazy bitch who let's guys cum in her.

Ryzo555 · 2021-02-13T00:13:29+00:00

I like her contact name

Burglingthebrownlog · 2021-02-13T02:09:12+00:00

I dont want to be mean. you dated a single mother. Shes single for ar eason.

auMatech · 2021-02-13T07:24:11+00:00

At this rate save the texts and call emergency services informing then that she is threatening to kill herself and her unborn baby.

Also, never give in to her manipulation, the more you post, the nmore it becomes apparent that she really only wants to get back together with you through any means of deception

At this rate you may need to simply ignore her and stop responding, while she gets replies it means that she still has a chance to sway you. Keep all logs though, no matter what

battle_opponent · 2021-02-13T16:50:03+00:00

"So your freedom is of equal value to the things I want!!! Wow!!! Wtaf!!! I'd rather kill myself then be held accountable!!!!"

They really are all garbage.

fuzzy_brb · 2021-02-13T18:02:08+00:00

It's the year 2121 and there's still women out there who think trapping a man with a kid is a sure fire way to make him commit. Lol

captaintittiesucker · 2021-02-13T11:53:45+00:00

She's crazy lol

dukunt · 2021-02-13T18:40:14+00:00

Oh shit Cowboy she is nuts. Fuck.

Distance yourself from her.

Block her as well mentioned before.

If bet that "if" she is pregnant that it's not yours.

Do they give no contact orders for this sort of thing?

I feel for you brother. This has got to be taking it's toll on you. Maybe you should get all emotional and scared sounding. Make it look like she's being manipulative and controlling (not a huge stretch), this could help when this goes to trial. Get as much incriminating evidence as you can. Start building your case that she is manipulative, controlling and abusive. That she has put you through mental anguish and wouldn't allow a paternity test. That you've had to seek mental health services for the damage that she's done. Go seek mental health services. Start a paper trail of you being a mentally abused man. We all know that she is planning to screw you over. You need to be smarter than her.

Edit: Make no mistake, she is being abusive, manipulative and controlling.

She's a shitty human being. She needs to stop contacting you. She's hurting you.

subtle_vegan124 · 2021-02-13T20:26:38+00:00

Your responses are golden king

NewGTGuy · 2021-02-14T00:14:21+00:00

Hello.

I'm almost 50 years old. I will never forget when I was 19, a girlfriend I started dating, about a 2 hour drive away, kept trying to convince me to marry her after only 3 months together. I would say, "No. We are too young and we've only been together for 3 months." She would reply, "You know when you know! Don't you love me???" We were sexually active. Eventually, I told her, "Enough!" as she wouldn't let up on the marriage thing. I broke up with her. She called me a day later and claimed she was pregnant. She claimed that she had just had the test and the doctor told her she was 2 weeks pregnant (I know. Now.. I know). Anyway, I was terrified. She said she wouldn't even consider an abortion unless I drove over to see her. I knew she was trying to manipulate me, but didn't want to tell my parents, and definitely didn't want to have a kid with this crazy person. So, I ended up sitting down with a teacher at my school.

This guy was a human sexuality teacher. I'll never forget him. He provided me with some amazing knowledge.

First, he said, "Doctors don't know if a person is 'two weeks pregnant'" Thus, this was my first clue she might be lying.

Second he said, "DO NOT DRIVE OVER THERE! She is trying to trap you and may talk you into REALLY getting her pregnant."

He then instructed me on how to confront her and trap her in a lie. I told her to send me a copy of the doctor signed pregnancy test! When I did this she called a day later and told me she couldn't find it. Then a day later she said, she had a miscarriage. WHAT A SHOCK!

The teacher told me how the entire thing would play out. He said, here's what she's going to say next. She will likely tell you she is going to kill herself. This is a common tactic to get the person who just broke up to come over. If she says this, DO NOT DRIVE OVER. Instead, ask her the common suicide questions, when, where, how, etc. If you think she is serious tell her you are going to call the local police and her parents out of concern for her safety. Well, in my situation, this happened right on queue. I followed his instructions and she immediately backed down and took everything back. Amazing how being armed with a little knowledge is empowering.

Next, he said, she will try and hurt you. She may try and call your workplace and/or parents to disparage your image. You might also start getting random calls in the middle of the night (this was before cell phones). If this happens, get ready to defend yourself. It would help to let your parents know what's going on.

I did all this and it finally took our family attorney threatening her with a restraining order to make her go away. It was one of the worse 5 month periods of my life. The lessons I learned were invaluable though.

Interestingly enough, she was married to someone else within 8 months of me getting rid of her. Pour bastard!

Please keep this story in mind when a girl threatens to kill herself (suicide) as the result of you breaking it off. Take it seriously of course. But don't try to solve the problem on your own. Call people who are trained and related to the person (if appropriate).

Take care!

nigglywiggly420 · 2021-02-14T01:15:34+00:00

God i hate people like this

jonnyhaldane · 2021-02-14T16:00:55+00:00

She is clearly trying to emotionally manipulate you. Don’t fall for it. Stop talking with her.

bufedad · 2021-02-15T04:07:31+00:00

The next time she messages that she wants to die, call 911 and tell them what she's telling you

They'll pick her up for a psych evaluation.

ShivasKratom3 · 2021-02-19T12:12:44+00:00

Get a pregnancy test and then if pregnant a paternity test. Literally talk about nothing else. This woman is actually fucking crazy man. She's essientally threatening you with suicide? Holy fuck dude please get this sorted and get out

datatroves · 2021-02-20T10:37:01+00:00

Yikes.

She doesn't seem to accept you've already left her (3m you said last post).

I'd put money on there not being a pregnancy, this is an attempt to manipulate you. She's trying to manipulate you with suicide threats too.

As I said in the previous post... Get her to hand over her 3m scan stuff or offer to go with her to it. That will answer that question.

Document everything, sign nothing. If it turns out to be fake pregnancy, block her and make an effort to relocate to your college town early.

As a side not, there's something wrong with a 30yo woman with two kids who was chasing a 20yo. You're a kid, you're going to move on.

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