What if you don't want kids, but still desire a lifelong partner?

MuffManMikeTheThird · 2013-06-19T13:54:05+00:00

Where were you when i was looking for you? LOL. Sorry, i'm taken now.

But seriously.. i think all you have to do is start dating men who are avowed MGTOW'rs.

If you are truly not interested in having children.. and can actually add value to a mans life (instead of nag/bitch/moan/cajole/say manup) then you should have no problem finding a man to life partner with you.

Here's a tip. Don't think of it as challenging a man intellectually and emotionally. That's a fuckup right there.

Don't go in 'challenging' a man. Be a complement to him. Be smart, be intelligent.. DON'T be an intellectual or a one upsmangirl. And DON'T challenge a man emotionally.. create and NURTURE an environment where he will freely open up to you because he knows you won't stab him in the back with that emotional vulnerability later.

And yes, we'll discover the world with you.. but don't act like a jet setting harpy who will bleed the bank account dry on constant trips to far away places multiple times a year (unless your financial ability can maintain that lifestyle).

We love the intellectual side of women.. as long as they have given us reasons to love them that have nothing to do with that intellectual ability.

Cheers and good hunting. Try MGTOW.. the other white meat ;)

protip: if you really want to snag a man to not have children with, go get your tubes tied and frame the invoice and hang it on your wall to show the men you are sterile. That will be all the incentive they need to lock you down.. i know i would :D

MuffManMikeTheThird · 2013-06-18T15:28:11+00:00

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vodkagatorade · 2013-06-18T01:08:46+00:00

You find a partner who also doesn't want kids...

SoftHarem · 2013-06-17T18:01:59+00:00

If you don't want kids, you don't want kids... There are men and women who are in that boat. I have a friend who's dating in the same situation, and she's been able to find guys interested in LTRs, though it's been a little harder. Looks get him interested; femininity, availability, and intellect keep him interested.

Keep in mind that a lot of red pill stuff is geared toward non-LTR situations.. There's no reason for a man to give a flip about intellectuality if they're not going to be around the girl for long.

jack500 · 2013-06-18T21:16:15+00:00

Maybe the force of your awesome personality and high IQ will keep a man happy when you're old and no longer attractive and never had kids.

I enjoy conversations with smart women.

jack500 · 2013-06-18T23:29:39+00:00

All of this just seems so dead end and never talks about the intellectual side of women.

I want to answer that specifically, and related to another question a woman asked.

I love smart women, love to talk to smart women. But if we're talking about marriage, the point is finding a potential mother for your kids.

Smart women are a dime a dozen. There are lots of smart people in the world. I'd much prefer a smart wife than a dumb wife, I probably would not be happy with a dumb wife. But again, smart women are a dime a dozen.

What's in limited supply are mothers, not smart women.

2013-07-01T20:00:33+00:00

There are many of us (guy here!) that appreciate that,and have no desire to have kids. I'm one of them. Childfree by choice.

TempestTcup · 2013-06-17T18:25:34+00:00

I think there are probably plenty of men not interested in kids. I think the reason TRP talks about fertility is because when a female is her most fertile she is also at her peak beauty & freshness.

The_Ringmistress · 2013-06-17T18:32:37+00:00

The talk about children is two-fold.

First, for most of human history, marriage was about the begetting and rearing of children. The only other long-term relationship that existed was concubinage, which doesn't offer the same same legal safeguards on permanence.

The other reason there is so much talk of children is that it attraction factors, which are hardwired into is, assume mating ends in babies. So the features we find attractive are features that make them good fathers or mothers.

Whether you attribute this to design or evolution is beside the point. It's reality.

, you probably could in this day and age find a mate that shares a lack of desire for children while recognizing that what is attractive about then is that they would be a good father or mother (combination of good genetics and provision or nurturing qualities).

The Red Pill is about acknowledging the complementarity of the sexes, the inherent differences, and acting on the knowledge.

Big_Man_On_Campus · 2013-06-17T22:20:49+00:00

There's nothing wrong with any individual not wanting kids.

There's great evil in significant chunks of the population not wanting kids.

Pick somewhere in the middle to be safe.

2013-06-17T18:17:46+00:00

Then you dont want kids you know? Still if you want a lifetime partner I think your best bet still comes from redpill theory because redpill strategy is geared at LTR's.

I'm sure there are guys who don't want kids either. I mean I personally don't

FleetingWish · 2013-06-17T19:25:42+00:00

What if you just want a lifelong partner who challenges you intellectually and emotionally? Someone to discover the word with, adventure. All of this just seems so dead end and never talks about the intellectual side of women.

There are many men who don't want kids, but you'd be mistaken if you think they're looking for "intellectual" partners. They are looking for feminine partners who they can make into emotional partners, but intellegence is not really on the list of things they truly want. It's nice to have, but definitely not a requirement.

margerym · 2013-06-17T21:25:21+00:00

All of this just seems so dead end and never talks about the intellectual side of women.

Could you clarify what you mean by "dead end"? I'm a bit lost.

redpillschool · 2013-06-17T18:05:43+00:00

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Title	What if you don't want kids, but still desire a lifelong partner?
Author	alexkitsune
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Comments	77
Date	June 17, 2013 5:49 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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