Questions regarding expectations...

Lady_Motido · 2013-12-21T15:11:12+00:00

From looking at your other posts you have some serious issues with your boyfriend. You mention at one point that you don't even like having sex with him anymore because he told you your looks were already fading at 21 and now you are obsessed with this. You need to get a handle on this issue before you even begin worrying about your future.

That your boyfriend told you that only 16 year olds are attractive makes me wonder what long term effect this will have on your self image. It already has sent you into a posting frenzy about it, just imagine how this will affect you when you do actually start showing signs of aging - what then? I see a lot of red flags in this relationship, be cautious.

Bakerofpie · 2013-12-21T08:25:42+00:00

Look up "wife goggles." If you continue to be feminine, supportive, and cater to your partner's desires he will continue to see the youthful you and stay attracted to you as you age. It's best to keep up with your appearance as best you can because it shows respect for yourself as well as for your husband. If you are doing it right and the both of you desire monogamy and a lifelong commitment he will have no more desire to cheat on you with better-looking women when you're older than he does today.

alphabetmod · 2013-12-21T08:39:09+00:00

I always hoped that would just be a natural urge on his part if I was a good girlfriend.

You've already answered your own question. Whether or not marriage is in the cards is irrelevant. If you continue to be a truly good girlfriend/fiancee/wife it doesn't matter. When TRP talks about "the wall" and other things like that it doesn't necessarily apply to a truly good woman. The thing is, it's hard to find these women nowadays so it's assumed that most are not like this.

Men are easy. Easier than they've ever been. If you put some effort into the relationship, respect him, take care of yourself, and take care of him, you'll have nothing to worry about if you chose a good man that wants to grow old with you.

OccamsUsername · 2013-12-21T07:04:48+00:00

I think a persons expectations are very important - and I'm confused as to what mine should be after reading a lot of your posts.

If your personal desire is monogamy, stand firm on that. Unless you stop caring about monogamy, you should not relent or make it up for discussion. You are more than allowed to have parameter standards for the structure in your relationship, it shows that you know what you want and you want someone who feels similarly.

Title	Questions regarding expectations...
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	December 21, 2013 6:44 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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