I hate the life I have. I hate being a Man. I hate having South Asian Muslim parents. I hate the third world cultural nonsense and the harsh religion I have to undergo. And while that may be worse for women, western culture is worst for Men.

If you are a Man you are see as a sub-human. Attacked when you feel pain. Expected to put in more. Women have more opportunities yet Men are expected to be providers. Men are expected to work and while can choose to work or not, and I much rather marry up and not work. Women can easily get physical pleasure. Heck women can get paid for it. (I'm not into this lifestyle but it is an option women get)

Women can find love without trying as much. Just need to be themselves. And get offers like employers. While men have to play the role of job seekers. Keep degrading themselves while women get elevated. Men have beat the financial and emotional costs, and waste on a pointless gem. Women on other hand get elevated and constantly values for existing. And if a woman gets rejected, she gets tons of support. And if a Man is rejected, he gets attacked, put down, and victim blamed (didn't the hard enough, etc) and told to Man up.

And God forbid a Man have standards. I being certain things to the table and want a fair deal. And get attacked for it because I am expected to be a provider; in both cultural contexts.

And of course, if you get divorced, you are screwed if you are male as Men are seen a providers. I can raise kids better than any woman I've met (I babysit for fun); but I don't get the privilege of marrying up because I am a Man

I've been to school with attentive rich White women. I know how perfect their lives are. Sure they are being screwed by big corps and deal with assholes and the problems of life. But comparatively speaking, they are privileged and have it much easier.

People need to realize that women in the west live easier lives. Yes pregnancy and labour might hurt, but I'd take 9 months times max 3 of some physical pain for a better life as a whole