A woman I was FWB with is slandering me and sabotaging my business after I kicked her out of a group. Everyone is telling me that I shouldn’t respond because she’s a woman, and as a man, I can’t win—even though I have text proof of all her lies. What now?

mikesteane · 2020-09-30T00:17:42+00:00

Have your lawyer send her a warning letter. If she does not desist, sue her for damages.

womblefish · 2020-10-01T03:33:03+00:00

There's this social idea that men are supposed to be stoic and just take abuse that is thrown at them. Likewise there's a social expectation that men are supposed to act 'like a gentleman' and fight fair.

There's no social expectation for women to be stoic, or fight fair.

The reality is that a lot of women know this, and use it to their advantage.

So some women will use the most underhanded despicable tactics to hurt men they think have wronged them in some way. And they assume that the men will not fight back so they can get away with it.

I'd say fuck her! Go all out and destroy her with everything you have! She won't expect it, she deserves it. You'll lose a few friends, make a few enemies. But your real friends will respect you for making a stand.

bearstevenlee · 2020-09-30T00:40:02+00:00

I would go lawsuits & restraining order. I hate women who are human trashes. They pretend as if other people should help them and prioritize their happiness even when they made mistakes that are entirely only 100% their own fault & responsibility. Punish them.

EvilLothar · 2020-09-30T13:06:40+00:00

Destroy her. Release all the proof you have to the cops and keep copies, and tell them if they are her family, that you will take her to court and destroy her if it keeps up.

IronJohnMRA · 2020-09-30T16:46:13+00:00

everyone is saying to leave it alone

They're trying to protect a woman. And their image of women in general. They do not have your best interests in mind. The are not your friends or allies. They are your enemies. Don't help them get what they want.

NotSureThanks · 2020-10-03T00:28:15+00:00

Take screenshots and document everything. If you have any documentation from the police visit and proof they are relatives of hers, even better. Set up one or two fake accounts and make sure she's actually deleting posts and not just hiding posts from you.

Go see a lawyer and take your documentation with you. Most will look over the details for free and let you know if they can do anything. If she has actually caused a significant loss of business/income, you might be able to sue her ass.

ashitanothrowaway · 2020-09-30T08:34:00+00:00

" Everyone is telling me that I shouldn’t respond because she’s a woman, and as a man, I can’t win"

They are right, in the sense that you will most likely present your arguments in the form of Modus Ponens e.g:

P -> Q
P
.: Q

Whilst she will post her arguments in the form of:

"Reeeeeeeeeeeee"

The only way to win, is not to play.

Ukman_44 · 2020-09-30T16:05:35+00:00

Forget about her and move on You have everything to lose and nothing to gain from this

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