Sexualising men.

Lethn · 2020-07-16T09:44:16+00:00

On a personal level my favourite thing is the virgin shaming. Women bitching about sexist jokes or objectification and then they're more than happy to shame a man over their sexuality. See the way they constantly accuse men of being incels or shame them as losers for example whenever they talk about dating etc.

As far as I'm concerned the moment you pull personal shit like that you lose any right to try and criticise men exclusively for their behaviour. Yeah, the hypocrisy is astounding and I'm fed up of twats who think that it's acceptable as well. I really have to wonder how many women who whine about the way they're treated have pulled that exact same shit without even realising it. Whenever they try and go after MRAs specifically and claim they're playing the victim I just immediately assume self-projection.

Lupus_Noir · 2020-07-16T10:32:26+00:00

We have all seen these kind of people. "Objectifying women and sexualising them is wrong and you might as well be Hitler if you do that."

Below:

"We are GASPING for air from the eyecandy mouthwatering guy bulges/butts/biceps!"

Bowlnk · 2020-07-16T10:40:26+00:00

This commercial still pisses me off, especially after commercials from the same time period depicting women in that fasion are condemmed or out right banned.

Wolfandhusky12 · 2020-07-16T15:28:14+00:00

Honestly I don’t get why people have a problem with porn because as long as everyone is consenting then their shouldn’t be a problem.

TXJohn83 · 2020-07-16T12:57:11+00:00

Just looking at r/menslegs it looks like it is for men and by men...

genericteenagename · 2020-07-16T13:48:47+00:00

I’m okay with women sexualizing men if it’s in a healthy female only space. As long as men can do the same

Firefuego12 · 2020-07-16T13:23:25+00:00

While we are at it I wanted to mention Reddit's obsession with relationship and how it considers the most valuable thing a person can do, leading them to insulting or ignoring other who don't. Copied from another thread:

This. Kind of a rant here, but whatever. One of the things I most hate about Reddit is it constant obsession with sex. r/thingPORN. PORN. Everything porn. Sexy sex on r/askreddit. It seems like everyone else here thinks of sex or the set of characteristics that allow you to perform it (having a relation) are the main thing that defines a person and its value. Go to r/teenagers and the main reason why most people get 50k upvotes when they say the have entered a relation is because they think of it as one the main goals that they will never be able to complete, especially since they usually associate it with a method of achieving happiness.

Oh and don't get me started on Reddit's insults. All of em? Physical or completly unrelated to the issue is being discused. They wonder by people think of their physical appearence and one of the main aspects that caused them to become depressed if they dont achieve it? Well look at the 50th comment made that says X figure is shit because he looks orange, fat or whatever. Reinforces the idea that sex and physical appearence affect you beyond the areas they are actually involved in.

Ironically most redditors would fall into the incel category due to them sharing similar factors (extreme obsession with sex, ability to achieve recognition among other people who share similar viewpoints by doing so, self-deprecation that gets fueled because of it) if it weren't because of the fact they convinced themselves they are better.

kbaltimore22 · 2020-07-16T12:28:31+00:00

FYI R/menslegs is a male gay community. There are very few (if any) female posters or commenters. That said, I’ve personally heard women sexualize men but I’ve head way more men sexualize women.

AdvocatusDiabli · 2020-07-16T11:47:33+00:00

It's not hypocrisy, since women (and any group of people, for that matter) don't form an homogeneous thought block. A group of people as diverse as the women will inevitably have contrary opinions on different subjects. Just because they all have a vagina that doesn't mean they'll think the same.

MadyTriumph · 2020-07-16T16:15:14+00:00

its a sense of entitlement, the assumption that men are nymphomaniac and consent is assumed because of this, female predators cant hurt men because they always want it and there is nearly never any social/legal consequences

kanray86 · 2020-07-17T01:43:07+00:00

honestly women are just as objectifying and horny as men lol

Title	Sexualising men.
Author	H3NRY0BR13N
Upvotes	57
Comments	23
Date	July 16, 2020 9:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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