I saw a comment recommending MensLib - here's the comment - np.reddit.com/r/privacy/comments/ej37o8/i_was_googles_head_of_international_relations/fcwif1o/

It absolutely is a men's rights subreddit, and it is a feminist subreddit. The two are not in conflict with one another.

The enemy of feminism is not men, it's patriarchy. And patriarchy is the same system to blame for the issues that harm men in our society.

The movement that is concerned with the issues that men face--expectations of pursuing careers that are dangerous or injurious; of being the sole breadwinner for their families; of being demeaned for pursuing caretaking roles like parenting, teaching, or nursing; of being disproportionately abused by the criminal justice system at every level; of being denied access to expressions of emotion and support for mental health issues--is feminism.

Or for a more amusing version, see Big Red explaining how everything bad '... IS PART OF PATRIARCHY' - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XxY-5ISEHPg

Let's flip this

The pay gap is because women in relationships are subsidised by men, so they have less incentive to work, WHICH IS PART OF GYNOCENTRISM.

Domestic violence is frequently initiated by women (who can then end up badly injured if the guy resists) but this is not stopped because women are never seen as abusers WHICH IS PART OF GYNOCENTRISM.

Women on dating apps (and IRL) are inundated by proposals because men (not women) are shamed more being unable to get a date so they have to do all the work initiating relationships WHICH IS PART OF GYNOCENTRISM.

Women spend more time shopping (oh the emotional labor) because they "are in charge of the home" WHICH IS PART OF GYNOCENTRISM.

Women get to spend more time with kids because they are seen as better parents WHICH IS PART OF GYNOCENTRISM.

Women are expected to do "emotional labor" because they are seen as superior emotional beings WHICH IS PART OF GYNOCENTRISM.

Any other examples of "male privilege" that feminists care about these days?