How to improve?

runway · 2016-09-30T05:17:10+00:00

Well, Loveable, you’ve come to the right place. How lucky are you that at 23 you’ve found the honesty and common sense of The Red Pill? Here is a sexual and social strategy designed to get you what you want. You’ve only been reading for a few days, so I suggest you keep reading. Fortunately for you, a little self awareness goes a long way. You’re already aware of the effects of your relationship with your father, you’re working on your depression, and you’ve got plans to start shedding those extra pounds. You may find that a little cardio will help with the depression. If you’ve only started reading, you will find a lot of information to help you get inside a man’s head so that you can give him what he wants while also getting what you want.

You may not love yourself yet, but I can tell you like yourself! You’re dressing up and looking cute and that’s a step in the right direction. I know depression can be hard to overcome and sometimes it’s hard to escape from the cascade of one negative thought turning into multiple ones. Make a list of the positive things in your life and go from there. Also know that no one group of people is any better than another. But, if we’re being honest, RPW not only believes you’re as good as anybody else, you’re better. Because you, by being here at all, have joined us in our mission to redefine feminine submission as a positive attribute rather than a pejorative designed to shame us into believing in an oppressive patriarchy.

So get your ass to the gym, lose some weight, find a hobby or job you’re passionate about, cultivate some talent for it, and you will find that you just naturally meet people who have the same interests as you. It’s a reverse and perverse bigotry to think that just because someone might be better than you that they’re not worthy of your making an effort to get to know them. Quit thinking you’re being a pain when getting to know someone. Think of it as giving them an opportunity to find out what an amazing (girl)friend you can be. Being confident and sweet and radiating sunshine is very attractive. We are all pulling for you here.

electrokiwi · 2016-09-30T03:16:24+00:00

Hey, welcome to RPW. As a fellow tatted newbie, I want to say it's awesome that you've found this place and you're already on your way to improving yourself, but I'm a firm believer you can be alternative and beautiful! You'll just have to acknowledge that you'll attract a more niche type of man. Self care is important, and making yourself feel and look good can go a long way, but trying to embody more feminine and giving behavior can just make you feel better about your day to day interactions. I highly recommend the Surrendered Single, by Laura Doyle, and to remember that other women serve as inspiration. We're all here to help each other, and your fiercest competition is past versions of you. Keep defeating those versions, and working on yourself, and you'll be surprised at how much you can accomplish.

MajorLeagueMagick · 2016-10-02T14:27:07+00:00

Get to a normal weight through exercise and better eating, and act extremely feminine to break anyone's perception that you're a common undateable tattooed woman, since that perception gets sustained by lack of feminine body language, speech, and action with a lot of those women.

Don't get any more tattoos, but since they are important to you, save up money for them in case you get into an LTR with someone who won't mind.

If you have a tendency to get in abusive relationships, with whoever you date watch the way the person treats you and others. You can also probably tell a lot about the person by how close or distant their relationships are with the people they are closest to, and by the interactions in those relationships, like immediate family or if they live with anyone. One of the theories that women go after "bad boys" who treat them particularly bad is because of self-hatred or low self-esteem, so if you have a tendency to gravitate to guys who fulfill your present beliefs about yourself, vetting men could be even more important for you than it would be to someone lucky who had a more emotionally secure upbringing.

rainyweathergirl · 2016-09-30T03:06:41+00:00

First thing is first, let anything that happened in your childhood go. You are an adult now and you need to move on and make the best of yourself. Adults who wallow in negative childhood experiences need to let it go. 1. You were just a child, there is no way you can blame yourself for anything. 2. Adults have their own trials and tribulations and we all have a breaking point, they don't always know or do what is best. Don't make this a part of your identity any more. Learn to understand yourself and learn to understand others. It will make you feel a lot better. Forget about everything that happened to you in the past and move on. Your self hate is totally irrational. You have no reason to feel this way, and these emotions can only be destructive. I would suggest saving to get your tattoos removed if you can afford it. Many people can't afford this type of thing. I need a lot of dental work done, and my teeth are a visible wreck, I don't have several thousand to get work done, I know how it feels to have to work with visible imperfections. It will hinder you, but that's the way it is and you can't do anything else about it. Your weight is temporary. If you are clinically overweight stick to 1,800 calories a day and it will all come off gradually and you will develop more restrained eating habits. Don't go on stupid diets where you eat 1200 calories. This will mess up your metabolism, waste away muscle and you will find it hard to stick to. If you are actually overweight in terms of standard BMI you are probably eating more than 2,000 calories a day, you need to stop. Most women will eventually have rocking bodies if they keep to 1,800.

Title	How to improve?
Author	loveableagain
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	September 29, 2016 9:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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