I've been reading you for some time, but I don't want to post here with my main for obvious reasons.

I have been knowing this friend for 3 years, and she always went to the disco and night clubs but I did not care about that and she also used to say that she usually goes there just to dance and have fun without sex involved (also because she's extremely picky and does not like a lot of guys).

A couple of years ago she decided she liked a guy whom she met at the disco, and she started going out with him and having sex with him in the car (she was a virgin before and had only a relationships with no sex involved). He did not want a relationship with her, so they were just FWB even though she was in love with him and wanted an exclusive relationship. From Facebook we can suppose he was going out with other girls in the meantime and maybe also having sex with them, but she did not care. I told her to stop wasting time with him and look somewhere else, but it was like talking to a deaf because she replied she was in love with him.

After a lot of time she decided she had plenty enough of him, but he still contacts her and tells her a couple of sweet words (that's how he used to get sex from her), and she is not able to tell him to GTFO nor she wants to block him (but she says she does not like him anymore).

In the meantime she also decided she is open to having sex with other guys without committment, because she thinks she can do whatever she wants and if you judge her, then you're just an ignorant. She met quite a lot of guys in the past few months (at least 3 or 4) but said they never had sex.

Today we almost had an argument because I don't know how to tell her this behaviour will lead her to having a mess of life in the future. She does not understand. I told her that when she will want a serious LTR and possibly marriage, the guy will want information about her past, maybe not much but at least a bit. How do you explain you had sex for the first time with a FWB and had sex with guys who were not your BF? She said she was in love with that FWB, and the fact he was not in love with her does not count because HER pov is the only thing that counts to her and who judges her is stupid. I told her that 99% of guys will ask or gather info around, and she said they're ignorant if they judge her because she's free to do whatever she wants and whoever judges her for having sex with a guy she liked is ignorant. The crazy thing is that in the meantime she said she WANTS information about a guy's past before starting a relationship with him.

I don't know what else to say. She said I'm in no way going to make her change her mind because she's free to live her life as she wants, to judge guys for their past, but whoever does the same to her is basically an ignorant idiot. She does not even notice the contradiction in this. Sorry for the rant but I'm kinda desperate at this point, don't know what else to do or say.