Do many women flirt with the idea of threesomes to lure you in with sexuality then close that door because they wanted a serious relationship the entire time?

fnordsnord · 2018-08-13T17:54:24+00:00

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RPGivesYouWings · 2018-08-13T19:10:35+00:00

I actually use threesome inclinations as a screening tool early in the game...

If she’s down for a 3way she’ll never be more than FWB.

Cmdrj-nice · 2018-08-14T00:51:25+00:00

Women use sex to get relationshits

[deleted] · 2018-08-14T01:22:36+00:00

Have done 3somes with my LTR, wasn't baited or switched on. As far as I know, she's been loyal the entire time. I'm not sure why people would screen out a straight chick who'd have fun with another chick with you--I saw it as her being submissive to what I wanted, and if I'm going to date a chick, I want one who is willing to give me the things that I desire.

_the_shape_ · 2018-08-13T19:08:03+00:00

The threesome talk ideally ought to be coming up in conversation after you two have screwed (and several times at that).

I don't know what you look like or what your personality/character is like either, but "former stem nerd" and the nature of this question suggests to me that you probably ought to be spending a lot of time in the gym and at the very least loading up your phone with as many women as possible (you're going to want to close at least one or two of these of course).

...and keep drilling that sidebar into the recesses of your mind.

Original_Dankster · 2018-08-14T01:50:01+00:00

I've had threesomes with women on a few occasions. Two times it was with chicks in the 90s rave scene, one night stands and I was high as fuck ^{guess I'm a victim} - don't know if that counts for your purposes.

The other was with my longest LTR. We actually lived together, and she hired us an escort as a going away present for me prior to a deployment overseas with the military.

Of course when I met that girl she was the town slut. So I shouldn't have been surprised when six years later she started fucking a dude while I was away. But yeah - it's possible to get a threesome. But unlikely, and if it happens, will come with complications.

[deleted] · 2018-08-13T18:57:01+00:00

Not nearly enough for all the talk about it.

Jrobalmighty · 2018-08-13T22:39:41+00:00

I think they bring it up early as a screening type question.

They are also obviously multitasking as well and turning it into a shit test.

I float right through that conversation. Flip back on her and see what she says to get to the intention of her probing.

Zhigaag · 2018-08-15T17:17:05+00:00

Oh my goodness!! All the responses have my head spinning. I can't help but think of some of the recent conversations that I've had with my wife.

She was trying to hint around at a threesome recently, and I told her in no uncertain terms that would never happen. We're married, bringing another person into our bed is not going to end well, I don't care how hot she is.

She did acquiesce but then made a comment like "I thought you'd be more open to it if it was a girl...." Read between the lines on that one: we'll start with a girl then I'll try to introduce other guys once you're comfortable with it.

I saw through the facade then and now it just feels like a slap in the face when I start to recognize the motivations behind her actions. Fortunately I didn't bite that bait; BP or not, I ain't no fucking chump.

Grrr....this just pisses me off all over again. Slow down, take the time, and learn what I gotta learn...I am, after all, still a Red Pill Grasshoppah.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-08-14T17:26:35+00:00

I wrote a top-lvl post on 3ways. Search on my usersid or fin it in “CorporateLand” on the Sidebar.

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