Between beong homeless and going to jail he chose being homeless, what angers me is that the ex has absolutely no consideration and that this is way too common

Jex117 · 2019-09-01T23:07:47+00:00

I'm saving this post.

Feminists are always telling me that men shouldn't get financial abortions, because child support supposedly doesn't effect your bodily autonomy the way pregnancy does.

There are underage rape victims who get put through this treatment, forced out on the streets because they couldn't make payments to the pedophile who raped them.

BigAl265 · 2019-09-02T03:11:56+00:00

Happened to my best friend. He lost his good paying job and couldn’t afford rent/food with his (already absurd) child support payments, so he ended up sleeping in his car for months until it got too cold, then he moved in with me for the winter, all the while still making his child support payments religiously. Guy never missed a payment, despite the fact he couldn’t afford a place to live or food to eat. He eventually got back on his feet and found a new job, then two years later his baby momma went nuts and divorced her husband and decided she hated all men, so she (for absolutely no reason whatsoever) decided my friend could no longer see his son and told the child his dad had abandoned him and never paid child support. Been five years now and he has had no contact with his son, and the courts have done absolutely fucking nothing about it. I’ve never seen a more loving and devoted father than this guy, and he’s still being forced to pay child support for a son that has been ripped away from him and has been poisoned against him by his crazy fuck of a mother. This is why I became an MRA, but I wish I could say it’s the only reason. I’ve seen so many men in my life get absolutely raped by the family courts, I’ve lost track.

2019-09-02T02:25:18+00:00

A prime example of the fucktardery that does go on in the family court system. My dad got screwed by the system with one of my half-brothers...when I was old enough to understand what was being discussed, I asked why he didn't take his ex to court for a re-calculation (chickie got insane amounts, I wanted my brother to be taken care of but she blatantly manipulated the system and then tried to use the poverty that she induced to take me away from him), apparently only she could ask for it.

Not all women will do this, but it's insanely unfair that some can.

2019-09-01T23:49:06+00:00

I would choose being homeless as well. Once you go to jail, even for minor crimes, a lot of your rights get taken away until you have a judge reinstate them, if the judge chooses to of his own accord. I have no idea if refusing to pay child support does this, but I would assume it does.

Ody_ssey · 2019-09-02T05:16:45+00:00

When it comes to sustain themselves, men do work very hard without complaining about the unfairness of the system.

2019-09-02T02:06:19+00:00

I bet he did not major in "gender studies" or some other useless shit....

AllwaysConfused · 2019-09-02T02:50:40+00:00

Hate to say this, but just going from the info in the post and my own experience with the shitty court system, it's possible that even she couldn't request the amount be changed for 18 months. And if it's paid directly to the court then sent to her she can't even cover for him.

mgtow-zen · 2019-09-02T02:33:46+00:00

The only men who get married or have children these days are either really stupid or it was an accident.

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