RPW for teenage girl? Help..

Pxzib · 2017-04-18T19:59:56+00:00

You can hit the gym hard and not become "bulky" or "muscular". You don't have enough testosterone for that, and it takes years of hard effort. You will, however, lose weight pretty fast if you start with weight training and cardio, rendering you a slimmer body as a result. Your legs and back contain your biggest muscle groups. Focus on those in your weight training. You will get a much better posture, which will make your breast look bigger and your butt look fantastic. As for the cardio, choose something that is fun, as long as it raises your heart rate. Running, biking, or any cardio machine at the gym is good.

Diet is an important aspect as well that shouldn't be forgotten. Completely cut out crisps/chips and soda, and everything with a lot of processed fat.

batting4fireflies · 2017-04-19T00:23:24+00:00

To answer your question whether going to uni and studying law/politics is RPW: it is if you make it so!

You can pursue any career/field of study so long as you maintain an RPW mindset in your romantic relationship.

Example: I am a criminal defense attorney in the US. To be successful in my career, I have to be more cold and embrace traditionally masculine qualities. Being too feminine and RPW with my clients (who are often males with a history of hardcore prison time) is not appropriate. I do not give a shit if they view me as a good woman, they need to view me as a good attorney.

However, when I am home with my captain, I finally get to shed that hard shell and be a woman for him. He has told me before that he actually finds it extremely sexy that I am able to put a violent sex offender in his place and make him fear me, while still being so submissive and feminine at home.

Cardiscappa · 2017-04-18T20:37:07+00:00

Strong Curves would be a good place to start in the gym. https://www.reddit.com/r/StrongCurves/

Like Pxzib said, you won't get bulky. I've been going to the gym for years and can do weighted pull ups and I still have a slim frame. The heavy lifting has "toned" me and given my muscles nice shape. I'm complimented often on my body.

(Pictures of female body builders that are ripped are typically on steroids and are photographed on their "on" season or before a competition where their diet is very strict and their body dehydrated to 'pop' the muscles for the judges.)

jack_hammarred · 2017-04-19T04:35:30+00:00

Check out the makeup and skincare subreddits if you'd like to pursue those as hobbies to take good care of yourself :) other than some SPF, and you don't necessarily need makeup or skincare but if you have the means and willingness to learn about it, by all means, come to the dark side.

When I was in junior high I decided I wanted employment gainful enough to help me be a charitable person. I've got my degrees and didn't let romantic relationships distract me from my studies or goals... they were relationships that were completely irrelevant to my goals, or in the case of my LTR, with a man who has encouraged and helped me become a better version of me, including me as a student. I advise the same, for what my advice is worth. Don't waste your time, your (and others') money, and the university and professors' resources going to school if you're only there to meet a future spouse and if you don't intend on possibly making use of that very expensive piece of paper at some point. It sounds like you are an introspective person with some direction in your life, as long as you are honest with yourself and make good choices, you've got it.

I'll echo others, RPW is a worldview. It's not a concrete list of characteristics and behaviors. If you'd like to have responsible sex, be career oriented, eschew makeup, pay your college roommate to do the apartment decorating, and swallow the pill... by God you go for it. Femininity is conveniently defined by grooming, style, and home making, but it is much bigger than that. It's an attitude, a mindset, a unique respect for self and others.

As a young person, I think you should read the content about red pill continually. I think you should make good decisions based on real, good reasons (about college, your behavior, your habits, your relationships) and not because it fits this ideology, per se. Right now your most important relationships (I'm assuming) are with your family, close friends, and teachers. Focus on those relationships, learn from them, be an asset and an uplifting person to those around you and revel in your femininity that way. Learn about yourself in these relationships, study others and ponder if you do or don't want their results and ponder what it will take to be/not be that way. Start good habits like exercise, nutrition, journaling/day planning, budgeting, learning to keep a household (basic maintenance, laundry, cleaning, cooking, sewing, and whatever else may be useful and interesting.) While you are still presumably at home and taken care of, explore some other hobbies, professions, sports, studies to give yourself direction and pleasing ways to spend your time that make you a good person.

tolerable_photoshop · 2017-04-18T22:04:11+00:00

Hey! I'm 17 and from the uk too! I don't have much to add to what the ladies have said here but just nice to see someone as young as me here too :)

One thing I've done is start helping around the house more and really taking care of my diet. I make my parents diner often and help keep our house tidy. I've been vegan for about a year, but I ate a lot of junkfood and I've had to work to get it more healthy. I mostly do yoga and running, only about an hour and a half a day. I'm about 5'7 and 122 pounds.

A_Beautiful_One · 2017-04-19T08:59:24+00:00

Focus on landing a top quality man while you're at university. If you're studying law you will be surrounded by men with good prospects. Don't become a drunken slut, don't be frivolous with your sexuality, and never seen to be "chasing" a man. Try to open yourself up to men who are genuinely good "husband" material without shooting too high and chasing the ultra-stud who could have any woman he sets his eye on. Rank yourself honestly out of 10, and then focus your attention on men in that same range. Your ultimate goal is to find a man who is more professionally successful than you are, but who supports your career and ambitions, and at the same time admires your beauty and adores you. That's the ticket to a healthy and happy life.

HobbesTheBrave · 2017-04-18T20:36:06+00:00

Go to a top British uni, and study law if you like, but don't rule out meeting your husband there and becoming his full-time wife. That you might abandon your studies in favour of 'wifely duties'. It's quite common for women to go to uni with that purpose.

For now, do your homework, drink tea with your friends, spend time with your family, cousins and grandparents. Read classical works. Old British writers are excellent. Especially Shakespeare. Also, find out if there's a sport you can partake in, preferably with your dear friends. Golf? Tennis? Squash?

Develop hobbies. Idleness is dangerous, trust us older than you, we who have regrettably squandered some of our years.

HB3234 · 2017-04-19T02:07:11+00:00

Woman to woman... do not obsess about your weight. There are few poisons more widespread than this obsession and if you aren't careful, it can suck you into a world of unproductive dieting, stressing, and damage your self esteem. One study siggested that as many as 1 in 4 western women has disordered eating. Look to nutrition books and your body's own feedback for what to eat, not other women around you - unless they have shown themselves worthwhile role models in this regard.

Instead, I encourage you to find a sport or other physical activity you truly love. Something you cheerfully do 2-3+ times a week. Run, play that sport, hike, climb, learn to row, whatever. Keep yourself fit and active and eat well, and beyond that I encourage you to embrace and love your body in whatever shape it takes. It will give you a deep and true confidence which most lack and which is utterly magnetic when present.

Makeup is fun (most everyone enjoys becoming more attractive) but don't force yourself into a routine where the magic is sucked out. If you're only ever a eyeliner-and-gloss gal, that's OK too. You have to find a femininity that is authentically you, not some idea from a magazine or elsewhere. Femininity is made up of far, far more than makeup, after all.

Spend your next few years getting to know yourself, explore, study, find out what makes you tick and what you really want out of this life. Develop a healthy respect and love for yourself, so that you can bring that level of care to your life, community, and if you wish, your work.

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Title	RPW for teenage girl? Help..
Author	gravybean23
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Date	April 18, 2017 7:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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