Is it possible to ever find a girl of your dreams with specific qualifications?

throwaway_redpill2 · 2013-12-11T08:05:02+00:00

I predict the correct response is probably something like "yes, but it's rare and you'll always have to keep your frame with her so she doesn't go branch swinging."

As for your particular set of expectations, FWIW I fall under all five categories, so obviously girls "like that" exist. You'd think a lot of openly religious women would qualify, but who knows. Anyways, that said, you might be fighting a losing battle. The older women get, the less likely they are to have never had a ONS/FWB, and as for the younger ones? Can't speak for anyone else, but if I were to find myself single all of a sudden I would be highly uninclined to date a man who has had a ONS/FWB. It's not different for men for me, and thankfully at my age there are still enough qualified interested men who've never fooled around who are looking for LTR's for me to disregard the men who have. Then again, I could just be an especially annoying case. Boost your status high enough (and you'll def. get a boost after graduation) and these religious girls are going to come running, probably.

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unsungman · Wed Dec 11 8:16:53 2013 UTC

Sure, it's possible. But if a woman meets a majority but not all of your arbitrary qualifiers is it a deal breaker?

Imagine a woman with all of that except for the fact that she's agnostic/atheist. I posed this question to my REALLY religious friend last weekend. He started spouting off Bible verses about how one shouldn't have kids with, marry, or associate with an atheist.

So I guess what I'm getting at is I think you should prioritize your qualifiers. While I don't know you, from what you wrote in your post I'd suggest your order be:

-Religious.

-Parents married.

-Never had ONS/FWB.

-Graduate w/ a degree.

-Never done drugs.

Don't take this the wrong way...but even if you meet a woman with all of the above...none of those things will guarantee fidelity, regular intimacy, and devotion on her end.

Also, while some might see religion as arguably the ULTIMATE form of blue pill thinking..I respect your faith. I'm semi-religious myself but fall into the darker area of faith:

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Timothy+3&version=NIV

A Favorite verse of mine...a woman can still have all you're seeking and still nonetheless embody the description of "people" in this passage.

EDIT: Formatting/Grammar

PlusGoody · 2013-12-11T11:43:55+00:00

The vast majority of attractive women who meet criteria 1,2,4 and 5 are engaged or pre-engaged before they graduate from college or will only date strictly within their insular religious-ethnic community. So the question is why didn't you find one already given that you have been in school and presumably are a member of a religious-ethnic community yourself?

roadywan · 2013-12-11T14:53:02+00:00

Refer to this graphic

What you describe is entirely possible...but is more likely to exist in the 1-4's than the 7-9's.

You're going to have to make some tough choices sooner or later.

vengefully_yours · 2013-12-11T15:30:30+00:00

Sure, pick an Islamic country and you will find millions like that.

the99percent1 · 2013-12-11T15:14:30+00:00

Yes you can. But first, you must start looking outside of america.

that_new_new · 2013-12-11T21:53:43+00:00

In short: yes.

But you're going to have to prepare yourself for a lot of failure and a lot of disappointment. And if you ever actually find a girl who fits these qualifications, you are going to struggle to not put her one a pedestal.

I struggle with that currently, having found a girl who fits my 'dream girl' template and has never failed to live up to my expectations of her. It's easy to let your guard down when a girl seems perfect--but the moment you let your guard down is the moment she stops trying.

So, be ready to look for a long time, and be ready to fight hard to maintain frame when/if you find her.

Cyralea · 2013-12-11T22:01:40+00:00

I'm dating the atheist version of that. Hard to find girls like that. Even still, it's not all sunshine and roses -- she very much expects her man to be a man. Even the smallest beta slips cause her to respond poorly. Further, I have to maintain a certain level of image or else her perception of my SMV drops -- she's said this using her words.

These girls exist. Raise your SMV and your options open up.

7Vega · 2013-12-12T14:56:10+00:00

3 out of 5 but yeah.

Petrarch1603 · 2013-12-11T12:52:28+00:00

Its possible to win the lottery, but most people won't their whole lives.

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