My son contacted me...

Criket · 2019-06-19T22:23:21+00:00

Ex put charge against me almost 9 years ago so I can't see my boys, and the youngest (15yo) contacted me last night.

Metraxis · 2019-06-20T00:20:44+00:00

While I don't think there is a cure for being French Canadian, the key thing to remember is that, for all the love you feel, this is a new relationship. There are a lot of things you are going to just unconsciously assume, but be careful about that. Introduce him to your town, your life, and most importantly, you. Expect a lot of odd questions, but answer them honestly. He's too old for 'kid-safe', go with the unvarnished and un-embellished truth about everything and he'll come to trust you that much faster.

Jackson2615 · 2019-06-20T05:36:23+00:00

Hang in there , maintain contact with him if you can, when he is 18 or of age, you can rebuild your relationship with him.

DougDante · 2019-06-20T02:16:47+00:00

Congratulations.

tweet with me to seek justice:

"My youngest boy that i didn't see since 2011 because of crazy ex-wife, contacted me last night to chat...I don't stop crying and doesn't know where to start..Im French Canadian." Fight domestic violence & child abuse @JustinTrudeau @SCC_eng @fordnation https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/c2mwq7/my_son_contacted_me/

Blutarg · 2019-06-20T02:32:11+00:00

Bonne chance!

available_splinter · 2019-06-20T07:48:12+00:00

That's awesome that he reached out - and ensure that he continues to do so. Give him every available contact number and means of communication that you have available to him. Coming to you is probably a big step for him, especially if he's been poisoned against you by your ex-wife. Remind him that you love him and that you care. Good luck.

gprime · 2019-06-20T06:58:38+00:00

Please help Im French Canadian.

I'm sure people here would be happy to help, but that would require you to be more specific in terms of the help you want. Are you asking a legal question, or advice on the personal relationship rebuilding? Is your aim to try and get custody?

splodgenessabounds · 2019-06-20T10:25:51+00:00

I'm so moved by that that I don't stop crying and doesn't know where to start

You being that moved is your start. Your son needs to know that.

Title	My son contacted me...
Author	Criket
Upvotes	67
Comments	12
Date	June 19, 2019 9:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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