INSANE LMR with girl begging for me to fuck her

Anonnitor · 2017-03-11T12:58:02+00:00

we talk for a while, I play some guitar and shoot the shit, etc etc

You fucked up. She realized you're a beta and dried up.

toothpickhd · 2017-03-11T07:53:09+00:00

why do you think you had to talk and play guitar for a girl that was snap chatting you her pussy. dude thats a tinder girl, the second she was in your place you should have grabbed her made out with her picked her up and brought her to your room.

Tony_Danza_the_boss · 2017-03-11T08:55:01+00:00

Why are you playing guitar and not playing with her pussy the second she walked in your apartment?

writewhereileftoff · 2017-03-11T08:50:16+00:00

You dun goofed by acting beta singing those retarted lovesongs trying to be all cute when you should have been escalating from the moment she walks trough the door till you bust that nut. You basically had the pussy on a platter but decided against fucking her and goof around so she in turn decided to bounce.

beta_no_mo · 2017-03-11T09:44:16+00:00

If you're getting naked masturbating videos beforehand that's an invitation to eat her out before she's in the door. Next time escalate faster

evilkenevil · 2017-03-11T14:41:27+00:00

"She drives over half an hour to my place telling me she's ready to fuck etc...She randomly get's all weird saying she's sorry for being awkward and that she doesn't know if she can do this, this is right after I go to make out with her, and she doesn't stop me, but she gives me nothing in return, closed lips..."

You fucked this one up. Her apologising for wrecking your evening was passive-aggressive speak for "fuck the hell off never call me again" as evidenced by social media block.

When a girl has decided to sleep with you it's on. In the more rare occurrences of actually telling you it's on then it becomes a timed event. Offer her a drink or whatever but don't chit chat with her. Women are used to men falling over backwards to have sex with them so when they put their guard down and say yes to you the last thing they want is some guy chit chatting. Seems like rejection to them. These narcissistic beasts need attention so you best deliver quick. Leave the chit chat for later or not at all because she doesn't care.

You'll never get to sleep with her. Don't even try. You've already rejected her so that door is shut mostly because you bruised her ego.

Done on to the next one. Remember, less words in the future more action.

balalasaurus · Sat Mar 11 6:08:25 2017 UTC

Women.

beta_no_mo · 2017-03-11T18:19:04+00:00

We all have our autistic moments.

I snagged this 8/10 Iranian chick on Tinder, agreed to meet the next day for lunch. We eat while she talks repeatedly about how small her apartment is. I take the hint and say "prove it" and off we go. I start kissing her shortly after we get there, take my shirt off, unzip her dress and then decide to hit the bathroom before the real fun starts.

I come out and jokingly say "so what do you want to do next?" She leans back on her elbows on the bed and says "hmmmm...maybe I should take a nap" with a sly smile.

And at that very moment, I was instantly transported back 20 years to high school where I orbited like Pluto and refused to make a move unless I was playing checkers. Every alpha part of my body shut down instantly like an EMP went off and I was left only with what remained of the dude who could give tours of the friendzone, who at that particular moment practically screamed "SHE WANTS TO TAKE A NAP YOU INCONSIDERATE FUCK".

So, I calmly put my shirt back on, said "well, enjoy your nap" and then walked out the door on full beta autopilot.

It wasn't until a couple of hours later that I realized what I'd done like I came out of coma and somehow I refrained from jumping off a roof in self-shame. I tried to game her back into meeting again, but she never gave me the time of day again and I vowed to never do that again....BUT I DID.

The point? It takes time to train our brains to act on new information and change habits. Learn from it and move on because no matter what happens from here, you will never get another chance to touch her again.

vorverk · 2017-03-11T10:57:17+00:00

Comunicate covertly. Don't talk about fucking. Just say "come over, we'll see what happens." Don't discuss sex directly. Just drop covert hints or teases. If she brings sex directly, just make a joke: "oh, I wouldn't know, I'm a virgin."

Also, you don't TELL her overtly: "if you're not into it I don't wanna waste my time". You show it. By texting next girl in front of her to come over (which she is not supposed to see directly by you showing her the text, but by you acting different, withdrawing attention, saying: "oh, it's late, and I have to get up early...", looking at phone etc.

In other words: make her hamster spin. Don't push the hamster, it needs to run on it's own.

ingenjor · 2017-03-11T11:03:48+00:00

Sounds to me like she might be a bit more into D/S stuff than most girls. When she got there and you dispelled her fantasies by starting to play the guitar instead of pounding her against the wall she lost the attraction.

I got a girl like this once, but instead of just shutting down and going home she actually asked me if I knew of D/S stuff.

RedSkeller · 2017-03-11T13:59:39+00:00

You should've opened the door, slammed her against the wall and choked her gently while fucking her mouth with your tongue.

BusterVadge · 2017-03-11T15:22:00+00:00

I bet you anything she has a boyfriend and was feeling guilty about it.

flashbang123 · 2017-03-11T19:23:37+00:00

She was hot and horny as fuck driving over to your place. She was probably rubbing her clit in the drive over. She was 100% ready to go the second she walked in the door - no foreplay necessary, her panties were already wet. You waited waaaaaay to long. You should've grabbed her and made out with her once she walked in and ripped her clothes off. She was just looking for a quickie. Once her panties got cold and dry she left - you went from hero to zero. It's a tough lesson. But hey that's Tinder, and these girls are a dime a dozen.

awalt_cupcake · 2017-03-11T21:03:33+00:00

She drives over half an hour to my place telling me she's ready to fuck etc, we've talked a bit too so I know she's not the type that I could just pull into my place and fuck her right off the bat

That's contradicting

akatsukirp · 2017-03-12T01:27:46+00:00

This has happened to me too and I fucked it up. She had been sending me naked pics etc. And just like you I started talking, waiting for the right moment. Later I went to make out and she kept her lips shut, dried up. Learn from this and never make the same mistake again. The girl I speak of landed me in trp.

cesafacinaicesafaci · 2017-03-11T06:45:13+00:00

Batshit crazy, you want to get stabbed?

evilkenevil · 2017-03-11T06:24:41+00:00

I doubt you're 100% out, but I don't know if she's worth seeing again. I dunno what to do here, I wouldn't talk to her for a while though. If you want you could, eventually ask her over again. Play it off like you're friendzoning her, go cold immediately, no guitar, no ioi's, deflect any sex talk. If she's over there with you get her to warm up to you first and earn your interest. I wouldn't break coldness frame until she's deliberately trying to defrost you.

Title	INSANE LMR with girl begging for me to fuck her
Author	slamacramals
Upvotes	12
Comments	38
Date	March 11, 2017 5:56 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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