Had a girl come over and some problems arose

KOakford · 2017-03-13T19:21:50+00:00

Don't fucking apologize.

DonaldBaelish · 2017-03-13T19:57:21+00:00

Good old anxiety. It's just sex. Don't overthink it. Take deep breaths next time she is undressing you , etc. Let her take control , i.e. put her on top. Tell her to suck you.

If this is the first time you are seeing this chick and you two almost fucked , this is not LTR material.

Sensei_Hensei · 2017-03-13T19:43:40+00:00

Do you watch a lot of porn?

awalt_cupcake · 2017-03-13T20:03:18+00:00

Don't let it get to you. Even porn starts have their off days. Here are the basics to get you back on track:

watching porn? stop.
masturbate once in 1-2 weeks if you absolutely need to
check your T levels
check your diet
get enough sleep
lower your expectations-- sex is your performance. Don't psyche yourself. She's seen plenty of cocks. Just get yours.
focus on one sexy thing about her and stick to it. don't let your mind wander. focus on soiling her.

Here are things to do if that doesn't work for you in 1-2 months:

get a cock ring. I have one no shame in it. and it works.
warm her and you up with foreplay. don't be ashamed to stroke yourself while for-playing too. pornstars do it.
get viagra -- haven't yet but will. sometimes you just need a kicker
as long as you lead it won't matter if you don't start at hardcore fucking. slow grind her from behind if you need to. Have lazy sex until you're hard. Tell her to suck your nutsack while you jerk it to get 100% rock hard. She'll enjoy pleasing you too.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-03-13T20:58:17+00:00

The prob with anxiety is that the more you think about it the worse it is Which makes you think about it more

bacheloritis · 2017-03-13T22:10:41+00:00

It happens. Try doing something active like lifting weights or running or pushups or whatever before meeting next time. And I agree. Stop watching porn.

DEVi4TION · 2017-03-13T22:50:50+00:00

Say "sorry this never happens to me I swear" with a grin, shrug it off, tell her you must be tired or something. Then act like it never happened and try again in a bit.

Title	Had a girl come over and some problems arose
Author	Randidandyx
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	March 13, 2017 7:13 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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