Roommate scoring all the girls I want.

Speedracer1111 · 2017-03-26T09:26:10+00:00

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VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-03-26T15:30:14+00:00

am one of his best friends

Really? Doesn't seem that way. I'm not a big fan of "I saw her first" but if this is happening EVERY time, it's not a coincidence. If that is indeed the case, it shows that he's either massively insecure or a sadist.

Any advice on doing with this and living with this guy?

Find a new wing man. This dude isn't your friend.

donedreadpirate · 2017-03-26T10:25:07+00:00

You could look at this as an opportunity to learn. How is it that you only got her number and he K-closed in same amount of time? Why didn't you escalate? She was clearly down. What are his techniques? Use your time with him to learn and then go out on your own and use what you learn. Then post the strategies here so everyone can benefit. Don't hate Chad, become Chad. He will increase your access to beautiful girls I bet too. He's a resource for you, not the enemy. I won't comment on whether he's a good friend. He's using you, use him too.

[deleted] · 2017-03-26T09:15:26+00:00

Definitely talk to him about it. He's not much of a bro if he's getting with women you're actively trying to get with. If he is a pussy master he shouldn't mind backing off the few women you're going for. If he is bothered, tell him he's a cunt.

mechsx · 2017-03-26T11:08:09+00:00

He's not your friend and he knows exactly what he's doing. Don't speak/bitch to him about it, that will let him know he got to you which is why he's doing this in the first place. Freeze him out of your life, don't talk to him and look to move out when you can.

Also start lifting and join a fighting class. You won't get disrespected by a "friend" like this again.

F_Dingo · 2017-03-26T14:27:26+00:00

Quit going out with him. You're bringing him chicks and he isn't repaying the favor back to you. He's freeloading off your efforts.

mbillion · 2017-03-26T15:50:11+00:00

He knows what he is doing, and you enable him by going out and identifying the girls for him, no reason to make a big deal out of it but its time for new living situation and new friends.

Change the way you interact with the world. If you don't like how things are going change it.

He's not really you're friend, or you're friends because you've spent time together but no other real reason.

The other thought is he can't steal them all, gotta get into an environment where he is confronted with two choices and only one dick

bacheloritis · 2017-03-26T19:18:11+00:00

If this is happening MOSTLY with girls that you are going for, your roommate has a clear "Mr.Steal Your Girl" mentality. A poison that's been spread through hip-hop and rap lyrics and degenerate moochers all over the globe. I've played that guy and I've also played victim of that guy. I fucking hate chumps like that.

Just don't give him that option. Don't stop at trying to get the girl's number and then walking away trying to "date" her after text gaming. Escalate bro. Or escalate the chump's escalation like he's been doing to you. Or just game girls when he's not with you. Or gather up some friends who aren't trying to "steal your girl" and lay the smack down on his candy ass.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-03-26T12:15:21+00:00

Go out drinking with this guy, be sure to have a strong drink in your hand at all times (something 80 proof or higher with nothing mixed and no ice). Also carry cigarettes and a lighter. At some point in the night, as you are making small talk, pretend you are lighting a cigarette and spill the drink down the front of his pants and in the same motion, ignite the liquor with your lighter (pretending to aim for the cigarette). Perhaps stumble a bit for effect like you are buzzed. As he is standing there with his nuts on fire you just walk away smirking.

Fulp_Piction · 2017-03-26T11:39:12+00:00

You could talk to him if you want, frame it in such a way that you can laugh at him about it. Make it embarrassing that when he sees you with a girl he has to get her - inferiority complex/jealousy/whatever.

Functionally, nothings gonna change really until you figure out where YOU'RE going wrong before you try to manipulate others. If you're gaming and she decides to leave for any reason then YOU didn't succeed. Whats stopping you from 1) improving your game 2) putting on more muscle?

[deleted] · 2017-03-26T12:15:21+00:00

I'd guess he is doing this on purpose. Honestly i'd just move out and go out without him.

Willow-girl · 2017-03-26T19:34:02+00:00

Sloppy seconds?

DSetupDTitleDMenu · 2017-03-28T06:16:14+00:00

Then look for girls somewhere else without him being around. After you've scored a few cuties, then jump into the fray with him and battle over World of Whorecraft.

Title	Roommate scoring all the girls I want.
Author	oholandesvoador
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	March 26, 2017 7:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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